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  • #1557219
    Natasha
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      I’m sorry to hear about your pet’s passing. They are precious.

      Seeking Test Paints & GBs ! Please get in touch if you'd trade/sell. I'll remove pieces from list by owner request
      ANY Red Eyed Unis
      ANY Test Paint Bat
      UNIS:
      The Purple/Yellow Baby Uni of Awesome
      Male- Snow Leopard TP
      White Lighting Male, Pony, Colt and Grand - I have Mom, Baby, & Young
      Ponycorns: Golden Zebra and/or Spotted Skunk
      Mother: Okapi
      Gothic - Mahogany
      PEGS: Male Midnight Calico, Male Bloodstone, Mother Starlight Rain
      DRAGONS: Male Coyote

      #1557221
      tig3r06
      Participant

        So sorry for the loss of your fur kid mimi đź’•đź’ž

        #1557254
        fatalbeauty
        Participant

          awr, sorry to hear that, Bodine….

          4 things I'm looking for:
          1. Mother Meerkat
          2. production color Sitting Young Oriental dragons to be made in more colors besides VF, Brimstone would be awesome!
          3. Female Griffin – Siamese with White
          4. September Raffle Prize 2022 AHD Male Griffin

          #1557302
          pipsxlch
          Participant

            Oh, I am truly sorry for your loss Mi. :.C

            #1557316

            Mimi,
            So sorry for the loss of your beloved đź’•fur baby.
            Please let me know if you want to chat by PM, or by phone; I am here for you.
            My thoughts and prayers are with you; sending healing energy and warm hugs your way.
            🧚‍♀️

            #1557603
            Bodine
            Participant

              Thank you all for the well wishes and good hearts.
              Bodinetoo has taken it very hard. She was a daddy’s girl.He used to carry her around in his shirt pocket,she was so tiny.It truly breaks your heart to see your loved one break down and cry so hard with a broken heart knowing you are helpless to ease the hurt.That increases my pain tenfold.Thank you ladies for being thoughtful enough to care.Your words really do help when folks are down.Group hugzđź’ž

              Every act matters.No matter how smallđź’ž
              (Wanted......Toaster Dragon)
              Male Hearth....one day🤞Dream on.

              #1557695
              Amy

                I’m so sorry you and your family have to go through this, bodine. It’s unbearable to lose a member of the family. Take your time to grieve the loss. We all love you. I’m sorry.

                #1559287
                GardenNinja
                Participant

                  My father died yesterday.

                  Saturday evening, my brother went by his place, and found him lying on the floor unresponsive. At the hospital, CT scan showed bleeding stroke. Evidence shows it happened Tuesday morning. My brother had been by on Monday evening, and took care of all the dirty dishes. Dad had taken his Monday evening pills, but not Tuesday morning. There was a single dirty dish on the table – a cereal bowl.

                  On Saturday, I was very scared that his greatest fear would happen. When he was a teenager, his father had a series of strokes over 10 years. The last years, he was an invalid, and didn’t even recognize his wife. I have been hearing all my life about how my grandfather “died but wasn’t buried until 10 years later”.

                  His final directive was already on file with the hospital, but apparently they don’t even check for that if they have contact with the family. Sunday morning, they called to tell me he would need a breathing tube. Dad had already developed mild dementia. I asked about liklihood he would return to that level, and they were rather cagey about that. So I put him on DNR/DNI and called my brother. We went to the hospital, and reaffirmed his wishes. The doctor directed the nurses to begin comfort procedures (painkillers etc), and said he would probably die within a few days, possibly as long as a week later. Brother and I called our uncle (his only sibling) and discussed matters. In the evening, the hospital called to say he had died. He was 83. We are relieved that his life will not drag on with deepening dementia. Mom is too far gone to dementia, both Alzheimer’s and strokes, to need to be told. She hasn’t recognized me or my brother (identifying us as her sister and Dad’s brother) for half a year. Since she only lives in the present, she probably won’t realize he doesn’t come around anymore.

                  I was very conflicted about whether or what to say about this. He was very anti-religion, and my brother and I are athiests. So far, I have directed my supervisor to only tell the other programmers, four people total. Usually, this kind of thing gets emailed to everyone on plant, ~350 people. I decided I didn’t want to deal with expressions of religiosity from people who never met him, and don’t even necessarily know me very well.

                  My keyboard is broken. I keep pressing "Escape", but I'm still here.

                  #1559288
                  Bodine
                  Participant

                    Oh sweetie,we are so very sorry for y’all’s heartache and loss.I am not good with words so I will just send hugz of comfort.đź’ž

                    Every act matters.No matter how smallđź’ž
                    (Wanted......Toaster Dragon)
                    Male Hearth....one day🤞Dream on.

                    #1559291
                    etruscan
                    Participant

                      I am so sorry. You made the right decisions, but it still is difficult.

                      #1559292
                      StormDancer
                      Participant

                        GardenNinja, I am so sorry for you and your families loss. You did what was right and what he wanted. Sending you comfort and hugs.

                        Looking for:
                        "COSMIC SHIFT DRAGONS and KI-RINS" and the "OCTOPUS TANUKI TEST PAINT #1"

                        #1559334
                        Natasha
                        Participant

                          Aw, big hugs GardenNinja. My thoughts are with you. You did what needed to be done, even though it was hard.You can be proud of that. I’m glad you were able to keep things private, as you wished. If you need to vent more, please feel free to reach out. I know we’ve both had lots of experience with loved ones dealing with Dementia, and I hope you feel a sense of piece that he will not face a long, confusing, drawn out passing. Hugs.

                          Seeking Test Paints & GBs ! Please get in touch if you'd trade/sell. I'll remove pieces from list by owner request
                          ANY Red Eyed Unis
                          ANY Test Paint Bat
                          UNIS:
                          The Purple/Yellow Baby Uni of Awesome
                          Male- Snow Leopard TP
                          White Lighting Male, Pony, Colt and Grand - I have Mom, Baby, & Young
                          Ponycorns: Golden Zebra and/or Spotted Skunk
                          Mother: Okapi
                          Gothic - Mahogany
                          PEGS: Male Midnight Calico, Male Bloodstone, Mother Starlight Rain
                          DRAGONS: Male Coyote

                          #1559336
                          Ela_Hara
                          Participant

                            So sorry, GardenNinja. My sympathies.

                            IN SEARCH OF MY NEXT GRAILS:
                            Silver, Bengal & Butternut Adult Poads
                            Kickstarter 'Rainbow Tiger' Bantam Dragon

                            *~*~*~* Ela_Hara: The DragonKeeper *~*~*~*
                            *** Come visit me on deviantArt at http://ela-hara.deviantart.com

                            #1559409
                            dragonmedley
                            Participant

                              GardenNinja, I am so sorry to hear this. I encourage you to tell your mom anyway – after our mother passed, we told our dad, even though he didn’t understand. She may realize his absence at one point, you never know…

                              My deepest condolences, I know what you’re going through.

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                              http://www.sarahjestin.com/mybooks.htm
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                              http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htm

                              #1559462
                              GardenNinja
                              Participant

                                Thank you all for your comfort.

                                My keyboard is broken. I keep pressing "Escape", but I'm still here.

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