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wooooot!!! YAY I’m so happy you like him!!!!!
*hugs!*
I’m so sorry 🙁 you did the best you could for the poor guy.
aaaah mine is at it’s destination but my swapee hasn’t commented yet….I hope tracking didn’t lie D:
omg this guy is flipping fantastic!!
I’m so sorry to hear this! *hugs* 🙁
oooh he’s adorable!!
eeermmeeeegeeeerd my foops tracking says he’s almost home!!! I can’t wait for him to arrive at my partners home!!!
October 12, 2012 at 8:56 pm in reply to: A-FOO-FOR-ALL! An Epic Foo Swap! UPDATED OCT 2nd! TIME TO EMAIL ME YOUR PROGRESS!!! #887466Got mine shipped too!!
Sooooo I haven’t seen my boyfriend in a year now and we are currently working on fixing that so we can work out our differences and get heading to marriage or moving on. Anyway a few months back he kinda well made out with a girl he has known for a few years that I positively don’t like and had prior told him “Ben she likes you, don’t kid yourself into thinking you two can really just be friends”. Anyways we have been working through that the best that we can with the 6000 mile gap. Anyhow this #%$#^ is also mutual friends with all of his friends so this weekend is a wedding of one these mutual friends….Am I going s bit nuts and wanting to kinda be a crazy person right now…Yes.
Also I will probably end up seeing her while I am out this coming up year. And my dislike for her also goes to the point of she has a FREAKING BOYFRIEND!! So she cheated on him with mine while he was and still is in AFGHANISTAN!!! I’ve met him to and he was a fantastically sweet guy that was so completely in love with her. Dang it want to slap her and kick my boyfriend in the balls $#%#@%^@%$#&%^^@%#$………
AAAAH I don’t want to feel anxious and crazy like a crazy person!
Oh Grayfire. I hope you can feel the waves of sympathy and hug-vibes from me.
I don’t know much about your situation, it is obviously complex. However, it seems like the writing might be on the wall. I worry about you committing to someone who cheated on you. You even voiced your misgivings about that person before the cheating occurred! And in the ‘heat of the moment’ he still managed to not think about that conversation with you? That’s pretty crappy.
I assume he knew the girl had a boyfriend in Afghanistan? So this makes him look like he’s willing to cheat on his girlfriend, AND he’s ok with being ‘the other guy’ to a guy who’s serving the country.
I have been on both sides of a situation like this which is why I am hesitant to condemn anyone… but this kind of situation is really, really hard to come back from unless both parties of the couple are EXTREMELY committed to making it work. I can see that you are. Just please be very careful in your assessment of how much he wants to work on this relationship with you.
It might be better in the long run to accept this turn of events as an indication that you have some real incompatibilities in your core values. That’s really hard for both parties to come to terms with if in a relationship with one another. Only you can decide if this turn of events really is an indication of that. But please be careful with your heart. <3
We are here for you to talk to also. Hugs hugs.
Thank you I really appreciate your words. I’ve thought about all of this and honestly I do feel that this is something both myself and him are working hard to get past. The distance has really complicated things beyond what I could have anticipated and then all the laws and legislation that are in our way….I just hope that things work and that if he isn’t going to be the person I need him to be that I can walk away. I talk with him about this a lot and we are both trying not to kid ourselves about the diverticulitis and issues that are ahead of us.
I like collecting coins :3
Sooooo I haven’t seen my boyfriend in a year now and we are currently working on fixing that so we can work out our differences and get heading to marriage or moving on. Anyway a few months back he kinda well made out with a girl he has known for a few years that I positively don’t like and had prior told him “Ben she likes you, don’t kid yourself into thinking you two can really just be friends”. Anyways we have been working through that the best that we can with the 6000 mile gap. Anyhow this #%$#^ is also mutual friends with all of his friends so this weekend is a wedding of one these mutual friends….Am I going s bit nuts and wanting to kinda be a crazy person right now…Yes.
Also I will probably end up seeing her while I am out this coming up year. And my dislike for her also goes to the point of she has a FREAKING BOYFRIEND!! So she cheated on him with mine while he was and still is in AFGHANISTAN!!! I’ve met him to and he was a fantastically sweet guy that was so completely in love with her. Dang it want to slap her and kick my boyfriend in the balls $#%#@%^@%$#&%^^@%#$………
AAAAH I don’t want to feel anxious and crazy like a crazy person!
YAY!!! 😀
these little guys are fantastic!! 😀 I love the contrast on all of them 😀
Let us know if you need anything! Just remember to take time for yourself if you can to try and lower your stress levels. Love you bunches with big hugs!
*big hugs* I’m so sorry.
Fur babies are so very important and dear to all of us. To see them in pain and have to let them go is the hardest thing to face.
that looks really elegant!
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