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lol…I keep looking at the picture in the blog and thinking…If I had all of my rescues that have come through my door in 2011 it would look something like that (if I could get them all to sit still yeah right lol) Thank you Melody for painting and sculpting these, they are very special!
*stalks windstone page for answers…and dreams of a pretty little husky colored pebble sitting next to Tundra PYO* :love:
Awe Kyrin! You know I went through something similar. My bio Dad was a drinker, and my Mom finally left him when I was 5ish. He had issues and wasn’t around much. Then When I turned 7 my step dad came in my life. And every mistake you could make, he did with me. He beat me so severely that when I was 14 I ran away, because he had just stepped on my head in the gravel driveway earlier that week. I knew if I didn’t do something he was going to just hit me wrong just one time, and it would kill me. So as you can imagine the police FINALLY got involved and did something to help me after that. Then my life became pleasant after he stopped. Then he started (mentally) in on my Mom, so I moved her out here with me in 09. That same year, he was declared mentally unstable and is now a ward of the state. However, my bio Dad when I was 16 started calling me, and asking me to come see him (after I got my DL at 17)…now I am getting ready to turn 28 on the 8th..and to this day he still calls me every Sunday.
The very reason why I said yes when the judge asked me if he could call, was because of my Dad. IF my ex wants a good relationship with them, he will make the effort. And IF he shows me he can turn his life around, I will work with him and the kids to help their relationship. The ball is in his court, just like it was for my Dad.
When my ex does turn the kids on me, and yes you are right I know he will, I will be waiting. My parents did the exact same thing to me, and I will tell them what I would have wanted to hear back then…the cold hard truth. Not sugar coated, not blown out of proportion, just the truth. I will always have documentation to back me up as well, I hope it never comes to that…but if it does I’m ready.
And yes they will have something it sounds like you and I never had, a REAL Dad. One that holds you when you cry, teaches you how to hunt/fish/ride a bike/play catch/reads bedtime stories/listens/talks/relates(as his ‘dad’ was also gone at an early age but he had a wonderful step dad). He is the most amazing Dad I have ever met. He knew what his ‘father’ did, and why he left….but he also knew that his step dad, was the man he wanted to be like. My father inlaw is one amazing man, and raised an amazing son. Truth be told if it wasn’t for my father inlaw I would not be on this forum right now. He saw my pain in losing Tundra, and he read on my facebook that I had found a picture of Jennifer Miller’s ‘Jenna’ PYO husky…so he contact Jennifer and asked her about everything…and here I am. *tears of joy in my eyes right now* Both my kids and I were extremely lucky to have a family like we do now. We all have a very strong bond with eachother, and we always do our best to make sure that everyday is special, and filled with laughter.
Sorry for rambling, but I can relate a little to what you went through. I hope you have found your own fairytale as I did…Lord knows I hope I am worthy… Big Hugs Kyrin…
Kyrin…Thanks for the kind words, but why are you sad for us? My husband fills up our lives, he is an amazing Dad. My husband and my ex can not stand on the same plane of comparison. Now things will be stable, without my ex making the kids a second hand thought/ not feeding them/ leaving them alone/ and raising them with the xbox. The ex has not even contacted them since the day of the incident, in other words he has not even tried to…if he had I would have let them at least talk to him on the phone (which I also allowed in court). If he wants them bad enough he will show effort and I will further his relationship with the children…if not, his choice as it always has been.
…and I know that this is only the beginning…but believe it in your bones honey when I say this…HE will have a fight of a lifetime coming if he ever tries anything ever again…I have enough money to drown him in the finest attorney family law has to offer, and he will have to show the civillian court ALL of his military wrong doings. (Which there is more there than the child neglect case currently open) He has made his own bed, now he can sleep in it…
He will never put my children in harms way EVER again…I have faith in the Justice system to keep them safe.
I’m very sorry to hear this. 🙁 I didn’t know her personally, but just reading her posts she sounded strong hearted and kind. My condolences for her family’s loss. She will be missed from the Windstone family…
Congratulations on this well-deserved victory! I would pay serious money to see his face when he gets back from vacation. Jerks like him think they own the place and can do whatever they like and still have everything go their way. WRONG! Ha ha ha :party:
I would pay quite a bit myself to see his face when he opens the mail that day lol.
