The Estroven is a good product; soy milk also helps. I can’t touch the stuff w/o gagging, 😉 but a friend of mine who suffers from some major PMS and the occasional hot flash swears by the stuff. Black coshosh is also good for the hot flashes.
I have fibroid tumors that wreak havoc for me on a regular basis; I’ll trade you. 😕 😆
As far as the anxiety goes, why not mention it to your Dr. and see if he can give you something to calm you down or sleep?
And just think how good that run to the bathroom is gonna feel when it’s all over. 😉 😈 😆