I think this is a pretty clear cut case of misunderstanding, with neither side intending malice! I hope everything can be resolved peacefully.
Again I encourage everyone to choose their words carefully when discussing others dismissively (even if you don’t think they’ll see it here); this is indeed a public forum and even people that are not members can read our words here. And they do! Trust me.
I am going to lock this thread because at this point I believe it is between the two individuals involved. 🙂 If you have any questions you can email me.
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