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thanx. every one. and thanx bardwing. I am still figuring what to do today. I have to bury him. nothing fancy, just something simple and some flowers. All my other cats know something is different, two siblings slept on my bed and my mom cat slept on the couch with me. Even my big black feral cat is seeking more atention. The feral cat really like Nova and had always been trying to go up to him. Just recently they were starting to play with eachother. I had watched them just last morning. That is part of how I got the big cat to trust me. he would watch Nova come up to me and play with me.
He would sit right inbetween my arms on my chest when i was on the computer(cause I lay down with my lap top on my lap, so he can lay on my chest, right under my chin). When he was born he came out back words, and I had to help pull him out because my mom cat was having too hard of a time. So he almost did not survive.
He would pur-mew at me when he wanted some attention…or if he spotted i had a long piece of grass.I found some video I had taken of my Nova:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=2MaWe9mQBTAhe could chase stick toys all day.
when I went browsing my hard drive, i happened to find i had this on there too. it is one of the last photos i took of him, one i had not cleaned up yet and I almost deleted it because i was debating if it was good enought to keep. Now the it is so irreplacable:
Your kitty was and continues to be so beautiful. I printed out that photo and it sits by his candle that is burning for him and near yours burning next to it.
{{HUGS}}xoxoxoxoxoxoxoXOXOXOXOOX
well i just finished burying him him. i did not get to sleep till 3 am because of crying, then i have been crying off and of today. it is going to be hard as moments come up where i would have spent time with him.
I have an older female black cat who has a blue color like nova had and for a few times i almost thought i was seeing nova and tried calling out to him.*snugs* This has not been a good couple weeks for our kitties. I wish we could turn back time and prevent these losses, but then there may be a reason for them that we can’t understand now. I feel that things happen for a reason, for some reason Nova was needed elsewhere and had to leave you, but that doesn’t mean his spirit won’t be back. You’ll meet again.
I think one of the reasons I’ve bonded so closely to Zinc is because he is the reincarnation of my cat Scooter from when I was nine. Both sleep on my head at night, and both claw at whatever obstacle prevented them from being with me. Scooter would attack the window, and Zinc will actually claw at the door until someone opens it to let him in. The similarities in personality are eerie.
Anyway, Nova will find you again, another cat will enter your life who will act just like him and you’ll wonder, but the bond will be there just as before, and then you will know. He’s not really gone, he’s just taking a hiatus.
Try to remember the good things, and don’t dwell on his death. Take solace in your other cats, and keep the doors to your heart open, Nova will find you again.
*hugs* I’m so sorry this happened now, not that these kinds of things ever happen at a good time.
Kyrin
I’m so sorry Koishi. We lost a very special cat (Oliver), a few years ago to a car also. We were devastated. We cried over him for weeks. We buried him in his favorite part of the garden. It takes a long time, but the pain does lessen. Take care. *hugs*
I’m sorry to hear about Nova Koishii. 😥 I’ve lsot a couple cats and seen friends lose them to cars. My cats are strictly inside cats now, even the stray girl doesn’t even care to be outside anymore. I’ve had one of them for almost 15 yrs, and he was a year old when I got him. He looks pretty gnarly, but he seems happy. I don’t know what I’d do without Sylvester though, he is my rock to lean on. Always at my side. I have a tendancy to shy away from people, and don’t handle stress well myself. Depression is literally the “pits”.
**Sending tons of warm hugs and thoughts to you**Kyrin wrote:*snugs* This has not been a good couple weeks for our kitties. I wish we could turn back time and prevent these losses, but then there may be a reason for them that we can’t understand now. I feel that things happen for a reason, for some reason Nova was needed elsewhere and had to leave you, but that doesn’t mean his spirit won’t be back. You’ll meet again.
I think one of the reasons I’ve bonded so closely to Zinc is because he is the reincarnation of my cat Scooter from when I was nine. Both sleep on my head at night, and both claw at whatever obstacle prevented them from being with me. Scooter would attack the window, and Zinc will actually claw at the door until someone opens it to let him in. The similarities in personality are eerie.
Anyway, Nova will find you again, another cat will enter your life who will act just like him and you’ll wonder, but the bond will be there just as before, and then you will know. He’s not really gone, he’s just taking a hiatus.
Try to remember the good things, and don’t dwell on his death. Take solace in your other cats, and keep the doors to your heart open, Nova will find you again.
*hugs* I’m so sorry this happened now, not that these kinds of things ever happen at a good time.
Kyrin
So very wisely spoken. Kyrin, you and I have something very special in common based on the way you speak of Scooter in this post. And the way youre viewing this passing. I know we’d really gel in person should we ever meet.Oh no! I’m so sorry to here of your loss Koishii 😥 My cat when I was younger got me through all of the rough times growing up and my dogs now are always there when I’m sick or upset.
*sends hugs*
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