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I have to vent some….my divorce was signed by the judge on Sept. 9. The whole settlement was around he and I staying in OR and cooperating to raise our son. Not the greatest deal in the world but I had found a job and was going to school so thought we could make it work. Well after 3 weeks he comes up with “I am moving to Seattle”. WTF!!! Now he’s saying I should move up there. Note: I’m not against this. There are definite benefits to the move BUT if he was planning on moving anyway why the hell did we spend thousands of dollars to come up with a settlement that he is breaking anyway? SO initially he said he would help me with the move and pay for 6months of rent until I could get myself settled back into a groove. Now he’s backpedaling. He still wants me to accommodate the parenting schedule he wants but is now saying that he won’t be able to help me with the move and rent. It looks like if we cannot come to some sort of agreement then we are going to have to go to trial for custody. I’m really getting worn out with this BS. I thought it was over with the signing of the less than ideal settlement and now I’m still dealing with the same crap. 🙁
That sucks 🙁
Although you should have a good case since he’s breaking the settlement.
I agree. He’s the one breaking the settlement. I would demand that if you agree to move, he WILL pay moving expenses and 6 months rent. Get it in a legal document. He’s yanking you around.
Talk to your lawyer. He’s screwing around with a legal settlement and it sounds like he’s trying to get around things by going to you.
I am going through my lawyer but I must say that I’m not at all impressed by the Oregon laws at this point. I’m a nice person and don’t want to start trouble but I’m to the point of saying Everett’s (my boy) staying with me and you can whine to the judge. We’ll see what he says to my proposal of “I’ll move but I need $6000 in certified funds prior to the move”. >)
I have to vent some….my divorce was signed by the judge on Sept. 9. The whole settlement was around he and I staying in OR and cooperating to raise our son. Not the greatest deal in the world but I had found a job and was going to school so thought we could make it work. Well after 3 weeks he comes up with “I am moving to Seattle”. WTF!!! Now he’s saying I should move up there. Note: I’m not against this. There are definite benefits to the move BUT if he was planning on moving anyway why the hell did we spend thousands of dollars to come up with a settlement that he is breaking anyway? SO initially he said he would help me with the move and pay for 6months of rent until I could get myself settled back into a groove. Now he’s backpedaling. He still wants me to accommodate the parenting schedule he wants but is now saying that he won’t be able to help me with the move and rent. It looks like if we cannot come to some sort of agreement then we are going to have to go to trial for custody. I’m really getting worn out with this BS. I thought it was over with the signing of the less than ideal settlement and now I’m still dealing with the same crap. 🙁
I added Shimmering Seas by Drag0nfeathers to the list. I would consider trades. I’m interested in curlies and poads especially but will consider all trades. Thank you.
Here is my poad. I was going to trade him but I introduced him to my little 4yr old boy and now he is a claimed poad. I am not allowed to trade him. 🙂 But I’m okay with that. They’re so cute together! (my son and the poad) Now we have to come up with a name. 🙂
Outside with natural light:
Inside with Flash:
Edit 11/22: My little boy claimed the poad and won’t let me trade him. Little stinker. Thank you to those who were interested in him. 🙂
I just want to say a HUGE THANK YOU to scenceable, littleironhorse, and drag0nfeathers. I don’t have a computer and wasn’t around for the GB poads and between the 3 of them they ordered me one. Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!! 🙂
OMGOMGOMG!!! Grabby Hands!!! I REALLY wish I weren’t broke. 🙁 I can’t wait til they come out and we get more pics!!! 😀
I don’t have the extra $$ right now to outright buy the curlies so I was going to try to trade for them right now. If you have other offers for trade I will be more than happy to entertain them. 🙂
I would be willing to do a partial trade for a fennec. they are just too cute. Also I have a Black Gold Hatcher for $20 + shipping. Not mint. The top horn broke off in shipping (I glued it back on and you can’t tell unless you look very closely) and a few chips (also from shipping). If you would like pictures I can get them to you. I dont’ have a computer at home so it may be a day or two. Thank you!!
