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KoishiiKitty wrote:
I am really glad it came in today. i was hoping it would. He isn’t a perfect little dragon, and the perfectionist artist in me wishes his paint flaw could have been smoothed out…i was a little surprised that they wanted to use it as a gift for some one when i considered him a less professional piece because of hi paint flubs on some of the scales……………but i think he carries a lot of meaning now, with those paint flubs. I really hope he gives you a smile, quite a few people really pulled together…and i feel pretty greatful myself that i got to be apart of it. I know the art was small, but i wanted to add something extra with it. I am familier with the pain of loss, and i know it will be something felt for quite a while for you, so i hope that the little gift he ended up becoming helps you through as you journey through those emotions.( dang it! how come i could not have thought of that as i was writing in the card! lol, i am really bad at writing stuff in cards.)
You dun good. 😉
I’m so sorry about your Mother and what she had to go through with the cancer, I do know what you are going through because I went through it 41 yrs ago and my heart goes out to you and your family. It’s very hard to lose someone you love and looked up to everyday, she was very beautiful. Thank you for sharing the pictures of her with us, and Thanks Laurie and KoishiiKitty you both did a great job.
I’m so sorry for your tragic loss, and grateful the surprise helped a little. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
Sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my mother two years ago, and it wasn’t easy either; I watched her basicly fall apart. 🙁 It totally sucks.
You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Your mom was so beautiful. 😥 I am so glad that this brightened up your day a little bit, even though the dragon cannot replace your mother. I am so sorry Kujacker. *hugs*
I am sorry for your loss Kujacker.
Be careful about attorneys and malpractice suits. There is a list of damages that can be awarded based on how long a person has to live and how much money they may make in that life time. One of the reasons local attorneys might not pick up this case is because your Mom had cancer, so there is a very good chance you would get almost nothing if the defense could prove that her life expectancy was not very long. You might end up owing more in legal fees that you were actually awarded. It will also take several years before the case would even make it to trial. Several years of having to reopen this awful wound. Sometimes it really isn’t worth it.
We had an excellent malpractice case on my grandmother’s behalf. The hospital she was at was giving her double the amount of digitalis she was suppose to be getting. Had we not transferred her to the nursing to begin rehab (because the hospital was baffled) they would have killed her. A simple blood workup showed she had toxic levels of digitalis in her blood stream. But since she was in her 80s her expected life span was not long and had we won the monetary award would have been insignificant. My mother decided to focus on what time we had rather than fighting long expensive court battles.
Your situation is slightly different because they did kill your Mom, but I would hate to see you more hurt by courtroom tactics and expenses. You have my deepest sympathies.
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Sun Dragon Koi #3It takes courage to share something like that on a public space. Kuj, your mom seemed like a very vibrant person. I’m so sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my prayers. (((hugs)))
I’m so sorry Kujacker, it’s awful to lose a parent when they are still so young. She was beautiful, sounds like she was inside as well. This year has just not been kind to us when it comes to loved ones. *hugs you really tight* Hang in there and I hope your financial situation improves soon.
Kyrin
I’m just going to give you *hugs* Your mother was a beautiful and vibrant woman, it seems. I’m glad the dragon cheered you up a bit.
I’m so sorry for your loss Kujacker. Thank you for sharing the photos of your mom with us, she had such beautiful and kind eyes.
Again, thank you everyone…
It was hard to write something so personal here. I’m normally a very personal person, and generally do not like telling the world of my problems… but at the same time, to get it out, and to be able to type it here… helped a little bit. Knowing you’re not alone in the world… really helps in these situations…And as Serenity went thru, I also just watched her… fall apart… from being the mother I grew up with to… the skeleton she ended up looking like.
Someone started/is in the process of starting an organization using my mother’s name and her experience. http://www.debsday.org. I remember it. She came home after the hospital and she told me about it… and later asked me to take the nail polish and stickers off her toe nails when the polish began to chip.
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