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I went to see my mother-in-law tonight to get away for a bit, and when I got home I automatically looked to her sleeping place and remembered she’s not there and burst into tears.
I did the equivalent of this the day after I had to send my GSD on ahead of me. I got into a wrestling match with my father and had to abort and burst into tears when I started to call Ende to chew on his knees and realized that wasn’t going to work anymore.
I am sorry you had to say good-bye to your baby, mourn her, and look forward to the next kitty and here’s to 18 years with that one too.
I’m sorry for your loss, I recently lost my childhood cat about a year or two ago but I wasn’t able to be there beside him because I was across the province. I’m thankful for you and her that you were able to be there beside her while she was passing. I’m sure that was a great comfort to her.
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Your post has tugged at my heartstrings and I can’t know exactly how you are feeling, but I want you to know how deeply sorry I am for you and your little furry love. She will always be with you in your heart.
When I had to make the sickening decision to do the same for my beloved Sebastian, I was miserable. We had such a close bond that it was the hardest thing I had to do. I had him cremated as well, and I have one of the All-Black closed eye Flapcats to guard his urn. It remains at my bedside, because in life, He was always there beside me…*cries*…I still cry every time I think about him. In have to take comfort in knowing he is in a better place…somewhere.
I finally brought my beautiful kitty home like I’d always promised her. Her ashes are in a lovely golden bag which was placed in a beautiful box with her photo in the lid (I love the photo. It’s almost like she is in the box looking out at us). I have also put her collars in the box and the beautiful poems that the cremation company sent us (those poems made me bawl my eyes out anew). I have taken her with me everywhere in the house because I miss her so much. She is on my bedside table when I sleep.
I tell you what, for such a small animal her presence filled up the house, which is now so empty without her. Her remains have been treated with respect and kindness which I am thankful for and which has brought me comfort. I bet she is up there across the Rainbow Bridge being a naughty tortie and creating all sorts of mischief! It will be a good day when I see my little girl again.
Here is her little box with the lavender the cremation company sent with her. It was a nice touch. The photo is a little blurry because I’m not a great photographer!
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