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🙄 :shout: —–> and then a little of that —–> 😥
The world is going to end because LEIGHA LEFT A BASKET OF LAUNDRY IN THE…*gasp*… LAUNDRY ROOM! *oh no!* *faints*
No, it wasn’t scattered all over the floor, it wasn’t left in the middle of the walkway, it didn’t reek….it was my clothes, in a basket, next to the wall, in the laundry room. While HER clothes ARE scattered over the floor next to the washer waiting to be washed.
And she’s yelling at me about it, saying she’s going to throw the whole thing in the garbage can outside unless I get it out of “her” laundry room.
I mean really…..
Stupid. Inane.
And she’s telling me I can pack my stuff right now and get out, because I have a “bad attitude” and a “higher than thou attitude” because I was ignoring her yelling i.e. not yelling back at her, not trying to defend myself (because I know from experience how USELESS it is to try and talk to my mother rationally), not mumbling under my breath, just picking up my basket of laundry and putting it back in my room, quietly.
So….frustrated….
I know what she’s really mad about. I made the mistake of being honest with her, told her how I screwed up my summer class schedule and now I can’t take the classes I wanted to take in the summer, I have to take them in the fall. So I already scheduled them for the Fall…done. Now I can work all summer. Big Deal?
Apparently, yes.
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Anyone want a roommate? I’m so ready to be out. I finish this degree this Fall, just gotta make it to the end of this year and I can start looking for a room to rent 🙁
Sorry to rant here, I try and keep it off the forum. But she’s on my Facebook….I have no where else to rant!
This has been one of the worst months of my life. It’s been one depressing thing on top of another on top of another. I’m ready to just call it quits.
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Oh my, Leigha. “Big hugs” and “hang in there” have been repeated so often they’re starting to grow mold but I’m not sure what else to say. I have an extra bed, but you’d have to take your classes in Switzerland… Is it impossible to move now, or just impractical because you’re going to move anyway after fall?
*hugs* if you lived closer, then I might let you. I am so sorry. It sounds like she needs to find a better way to communicate, and she takes things to the extreme, when she doesn’t need to.
eaglefeather831 wrote:*hugs* if you lived closer, then I might let you. I am so sorry. It sounds like she needs to find a better way to communicate, and she takes things to the extreme, when she doesn’t need to.
Yeah, and she can’t just say “I don’t want that basket in the laundry room, please take it to your room.” She’s gotta get MAD about it and yell and then goes off on a tangent about everything else that irritates her. It’s not like I’d tel her no if she asked me instead of yelled. I’d pick it up and take it away quietly just the same. I don’t disobey most of the time. Only thing I can really say I’ve put my foot down over would be visiting my online friends in person. She actually “forbade” me and I went anyway. Thanks Eaglefeather.
Greater Basilisk wrote:Oh my, Leigha. “Big hugs” and “hang in there” have been repeated so often they’re starting to grow mold but I’m not sure what else to say. I have an extra bed, but you’d have to take your classes in Switzerland… Is it impossible to move now, or just impractical because you’re going to move anyway after fall?
Not impossible, but yes, impractical. And “big hugs” and “hang in there” are all I’m expecting 🙂 thanks for them GB. I need hugs….lots of them. Absolutely terrible month. 😥
Perfect! I can kick Shaun out and you can come and live with me 🙂 Pack your shit! Get your butt over to Mass and we’ll have lotsa Windstone lovin’ fun! 😆
I’m sorry you’re having issues at home, been there done that. I’ve been living w/ my brothers and then my sister since I was about 6 because I was nothing but a gravy train to my mother. In all actuality, I had lived out my usefulness until I was 18 and then my mother needed me to sign over my social security checks I never even know I was getting. 👿 So there are WORSE parents out there believe it or not. 🙂 When you eventually get out on your own, your mother will realize how much she really wanted you to stay a while longer.
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If you’re done after the fall, just keep saying to yourself that it’s just another 6 months. 1/2 a year and then you can pack your shit and be gone! I kept saying that with my past roommate who wasn’t paying rent. Time continues to move forward, etc, and it will end.
And you can have some *hugs* and virtual chocolate from me as well. Even if they are starting to grow mold…. 😆
Sorry to hear she’s giving you such crap over stuff that’s utterly trivial. 🙁 Hang in there! At least you’ve got a date to look forward to and you’re not ‘stuck’ in such a situation long-term.
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I’m sorry you’re having to go through this, Leigha 🙁 I know how you feel; my mother’s husband seems to act the same as your mom. Hypocritical, flying off the handle at nothing, then going off on tangents about stuff that isn’t even at issue at the moment. It’s got to be frustrating for you. Just a little bit longer, if you can possibly stand it, and you’ll be free. I plan to do the same, when I’m done with school next year. Viva la libertad! *waves a freedom flag emblazoned with Windstones*
This too will pass–of course it is not pleasant for the time being! Six more months–just six more months! For now hide in your room, surround yourself with your Windstones, study and study hard to pass so you can graduate and be out of there! I don’t understand what’s the big deal of you working all summer instead of classes–you’ll take them in the Fall and be done with it. She may be wanting to get you out of there as well–don’t know, just a guess.
Oh Leigha, I understand completely. I live with my parents (financial/medical reasons) and my mum will do that to me as well. I know how frustrating and depressing it feels to be in that situation. All you want to do is cry cause it seems that you can’t do anything right, no matter how much you try. *offers a hug and shoulder* Find that job for the summer, save up and avoid her as much as possible, keep telling yourself 6months and if you need a sympathetic shoulder drop me a line.
You’re right Foxfeather, nothing I do is ever good enough. And it doesn’t help that I have “middle child syndrome” and I try twice as hard as my siblings to make my mom happy, and I still feel like she loves them more.
Thanks Machinegutz, I was having a sad day yesterday to begin with…had to delete all the pictures of my ex from my computer and was just miserable afterwards. 😥
Haha Megani *waves a freedom flag emblazoned with Windstones too!!* Why did I picture the end of Braveheart where he yells out FREEDOM and then dies? lol
LOL Drag0n you have no idea how tempting that is! @.@ just to be there when you get your special spectral….*drools* wantwantwantwant
we’d have so much fun :X <3Thanks Everyone. I’m doing more laundry today, someone remind me to pull what I don’t finish back in my room and lock myself in before 6pm >.< 😀
While it can cost, having your own place ROCKS! So yeah, hang in there!
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