I’m so sorry DM, Louis and I both send you big hugs and warm fuzzies, and well wishes! You know we’re ALL here for you, if you ever need anything, please let us know!! *like a pick me up trip to the factory ;)*
As for her ashes, I agree with the sentiments that they should go back to the earth, I don’t think there is anything illegal about it, they let people keep ashes all the time.
Chin up, I’m sure Ski will share some of her rocky road 😉