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I’m all depressed today because my intense emerald peacock male dragon was supposed to get here but didn’t. So tomorrow I have my first ob appointment which I should be happy about but I have to take my husband to the doctor right afterwards. That means I have to drive all the way in the city just to hear his doctors tell me things I don’t want to hear. We are going to talk to them about when they think he should be active on the transplant list and how much longer he will be on the iv antibiotics for his pneumonia. So all day I’m going to run, run, run. I’ve been feeling like crap for the past two weeks and I get so sleepy after 1pm I just know its gonna be a rough day. What a way to spend my last day off. I hope at least my dragon will be here when I get home.
I’m sorry for all your troubles, purpledoggey. 🙁
I hope your empea OW does show up tomorrow. You deserve something nice for a change.
Well if it helps any, the run down tired feeling will go away soon. Around your 16th week or so you should start feeling a bit more energy.
I hope that your hubby’s doctors aren’t all doom and gloom, and that they will have some good things to go along with the bad.
Most important, I hope that your well baby visit goes well, and that despite all the stress you’ve been under, everything on that front is fine. You seem like you are pretty healthy, so I don’t see why not. I look forward to figuring out how to orchestrate a virtual online baby shower in a few months.
I figure we all mail you something, and then you have to wait until an appointed time for us to all be there for you to open each, or perhaps just have you post what you got as each one comes in, that second option might be easier.
Meanwhile, rest as much as you can tonight, and take a nap as soon as you get home from all your running around tomorrow.
*hugs*
Kyrin
Kyrin wrote:Well if it helps any, the run down tired feeling will go away soon. Around your 16th week or so you should start feeling a bit more energy.
I hope that your hubby’s doctors aren’t all doom and gloom, and that they will have some good things to go along with the bad.
Most important, I hope that your well baby visit goes well, and that despite all the stress you’ve been under, everything on that front is fine. You seem like you are pretty healthy, so I don’t see why not. I look forward to figuring out how to orchestrate a virtual online baby shower in a few months.
I figure we all mail you something, and then you have to wait until an appointed time for us to all be there for you to open each, or perhaps just have you post what you got as each one comes in, that second option might be easier.
Meanwhile, rest as much as you can tonight, and take a nap as soon as you get home from all your running around tomorrow.
*hugs*
Kyrin
I second that, good luck, hang in there and things will get better!!!
You’ll survive tomorrow, purpledoggy. I hope your dragon is waiting for you to cheer you up.
As for that baby shower – you can count me in for it! (Just a reminder.)sending warm fuzzies and wishes that everything will turn out well at the doc apointments. hope the dragon will bring a smile to your face. 😀
You can do it. Just remember, a day can only last so long and then its over. This too will pass. Chin up and good luck 🙂
It should be there soon. I just got my male yesterday. Wish someone was closer to drive you around and help out.
Still no dragon /sigh. My husbands appointment went pretty much the way I figured it would. Everything stayed the same but his weight went up. They are going to keep the iv in for another two weeks then see how he is doing. They wouldn’t give us a definate answer on transplant. All they said was they would talk to his transplant doctor and see if he could get an appointment before August. I really want him to get a transplant but I was crossing my fingers that it wouldn’t happen until after the baby is born. Oh well whatever happens will happne. I just hope he comes thru it ok like he does with everything else. It will just suck being on the edge of my seat all the time waiting for that phone call. I’m the only one out of all his relatives that will drop everything and come running when he needs help. His mother and father said if they didn’t have anything to do then they could be there. HELLO! When they call you for a transplant you can’t push that off. Ok must stop or I’ll go off on a rant spree.
purpledoggy wrote:Still no dragon /sigh. My husbands appointment went pretty much the way I figured it would. Everything stayed the same but his weight went up. They are going to keep the iv in for another two weeks then see how he is doing. They wouldn’t give us a definate answer on transplant. All they said was they would talk to his transplant doctor and see if he could get an appointment before August. I really want him to get a transplant but I was crossing my fingers that it wouldn’t happen until after the baby is born. Oh well whatever happens will happne. I just hope he comes thru it ok like he does with everything else. It will just suck being on the edge of my seat all the time waiting for that phone call. I’m the only one out of all his relatives that will drop everything and come running when he needs help. His mother and father said if they didn’t have anything to do then they could be there. HELLO! When they call you for a transplant you can’t push that off. Ok must stop or I’ll go off on a rant spree.
Oy Vey! Sounds like both of you have some real gems for parents. *sheesh!* If we’re not busy, they can be there? If I lived closer to you, I would be there for you guys. Ridiculous!
I hope you two have some close friends nearby, who can be of more help and support.
Kyrin
Not really. I dont’ have many friends (just my husbands one friend and his girlfriend). Well my partners at work would help me if I asked but they are men so I don’t really ask for help from them unless it involves man type stuff lol. I honestly belive that if I wasn’t in my husbands life that he would have been dead years ago. His mother subjected him to second hand smoke for 20 or so years when she married a man who refused to stop smoking. All she cares about is herself. His father won’t do anything for him because my husband won’t accept Jesus into his life (I kid you not thats what he says). Many nights I’ve seen my husband cry because his father cares more about his church then he does about his family. My husband has since stopped talking to him. They don’t even visit him when he is in the hospital. Back last year when he got really sick and they didn’t know if he was going to die or not some of his family came up to see him and one of them actually told him the only reason they were there is because he wasn’t going to live much longer. WTF! I wasn’t there when that happened or else I would have killed them all. They are all worthless and I believe they wrote him off ages ago figuring he wouldn’t be around much longer and would never have children. I feel so bad for him and the childhood he must have had. I just hope I bring some kind of happieness to his life.
purpledoggy wrote:Not really. I dont’ have many friends (just my husbands one friend and his girlfriend). Well my partners at work would help me if I asked but they are men so I don’t really ask for help from them unless it involves man type stuff lol. I honestly belive that if I wasn’t in my husbands life that he would have been dead years ago. His mother subjected him to second hand smoke for 20 or so years when she married a man who refused to stop smoking. All she cares about is herself. His father won’t do anything for him because my husband won’t accept Jesus into his life (I kid you not thats what he says). Many nights I’ve seen my husband cry because his father cares more about his church then he does about his family. My husband has since stopped talking to him. They don’t even visit him when he is in the hospital. Back last year when he got really sick and they didn’t know if he was going to die or not some of his family came up to see him and one of them actually told him the only reason they were there is because he wasn’t going to live much longer. WTF! I wasn’t there when that happened or else I would have killed them all. They are all worthless and I believe they wrote him off ages ago figuring he wouldn’t be around much longer and would never have children. I feel so bad for him and the childhood he must have had. I just hope I bring some kind of happieness to his life.
Wow, that kind of sounds like my bf family. He was adopted by his grandparents. His mom died when he was 2 years old. His father has been in and out of his life. His grandfather is dead and his grandmother is over 80. She tries to call every once in a while. My bf was in the hospital before we met and he said that not many people were there to visit him. He has told me that if he doesn’t have me, then he doesn’t have anyone. One of the reasons I like him is when times are tough and if I didn’t have a job then he would try to support us both and visa versa. He would put me first before himself and I would do the same.
I think you are brave going thru this purpledoggy. I do hope things look up for you. 😀
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