Usually Im so with it. In retrospect, reviewing mine and Nams communique, I should have figured it out. But I never assume stuff like this happens to me. And friends that have gone to great lengths to plan, say, surprise parties- I always feel something in the air and it fails though I do a good job of acting out of love. While Im a bad liar and would be red if lying, the red from embarassment masks that during my “OMG! I never suspected!” speech. Plus, living in FL and having a wacky thyroid now, Im so heat intolerant that Im always red. One big beet of a hive (welt) is what I look like mostly; which is why no one will ever see a current pic of me. Past pics when I enjoyed my health, no problem sharing. But current photos of me today, not only dont I have any but I dont allow any to be taken. So, with regard to the griffin, youll simply see photos of him and not my ruby face!