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I’d like to welcome you all to the roller coaster ride that is my life.
As of Monday afternoon, my Husband and I are trying to work on things again. He called me at work on Monday and asked me to come home to talk. When I got there we talked for several hours, really heart to heart stuff and came to the conclusion that we weren’t ready to let go yet.
The past few days have been up and down, add to it that I came down with a cold/cough monday night & yeah. Fun. But we are talking alot & being honest about things & it’s been better than it has been in a LONG time.
I think me being ready to move out really jarred him.
I am still moving forward with setting up my own accounts & that sort of thing, sort of be more able to stand on my own. Alot of things have come into focus ecently and I never want to feel like I couldn’t make it on my own if I needed to.
Anyways. Thank you all for your support, it really means alot to me.
They say honest communication is the key to a healthy, long, and strong relationship. Happy to hear the good news.
Glad to hear things are looking up for you and I hope that you two are truly able to work things out, even if you ‘stand on your own feet’ as it were a little more (it’s not a bad idea :yes: ). If things don’t, I hope that you are able to at least part on friendly terms. Good luck! 🙂
Despite my lack of posting on this topic, I have been reading it, and I am glad to hear the good news. It is good that you are separating your accounts, whether you stay together or not, because then you are more financially independent, and that in my mind is always a good thing. :yes:
I hope that things work out for you, one way or the other. (hugs)
megamibabe16 wrote:They say honest communication is the key to a healthy, long, and strong relationship. Happy to hear the good news.
I second that.
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmI commented on your Facebook about this already, but it is nice to hear that things are better now than they have been in a long time!
dragonmedley wrote:megamibabe16 wrote:They say honest communication is the key to a healthy, long, and strong relationship. Happy to hear the good news.
I second that.
I third this! Sending lots of love and praying for the best!
Been reading this whole tread bit by bit. I’m sorry you have to go through all of this Crimson. I’ve never gotten married in the first place for fear of having to go through the exact same thing you are dealing with right now. It sounds like there may be light at the end of the tunnel though so please let us know how things work out. Asserting your independence financially is probably exactly what you should be doing right now. If there is anything I can do please just let me know. We’re all here for you.
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Dreamscape, Orion, Poison Dart, Fireberry, Spangler + Tigerberry DragonsOh, Crimson, my heart goes out to you. I have been in the situation of “to divorce” or “not to divorce”. It is very stressful when the decision hasn’t been made yet. The wondering and anticipation can tear you apart. I’m glad you are keeping the lines of communication open. It helps to prevent any “what if” or “I wonder” later down the line. Major hugs from me. PM me if you need to.
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We are here for you no matter which way the pendulum swings.A roller coaster ride can get so draining on the Spirit.Remember you both count and you were friends in the beginning,let’s hope that brings you strength and you can always be friends.That is a very important key to a long,loving relationship.My motto? If he puts you first and you put him first,nobody is second. 🙂
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