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I’ll echo everyone here and send you encouraging hugs.
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmThank you very much everyone who commented or sent me a PM; it helps alot. I sort of feel this forum is the only real ‘me’ place as all other online thingies are riddled with both of our friends. Don’t really want to pit them against either of us yanno?
Last night he said he has been ‘reconsidering’ the split. I’m sort of trying to put it out of my mind until our counseling session on Friday afternoon. Going out for a ‘girls night’ tonight. Session is tomorrow at 5pm and then he’s going away for the weekend (down to Austin for an SCA event). I have another get together to go to on Sunday at noon but other than that I have no plans for the weekend. Will probably have to see how the session plays out.
May things work out for the best for you.Hugs and sweet thoughts :yes:
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Male Hearth....one day🤞Dream on.Crimson, I am so sorry about this. If you ever need a crying ear, or just someone to vent to, then I would be more than happy to help you in any way I can. I hope that this session, tomorrow, will go well. *HUGS* I will pray for you!!!!
I feel for ya. I just went through that in the last year. Thankfully, we didn’t have kids, either. As much as I wanted things to work, they weren’t. His priorities did not include me, and I gave up after 9 years. I left my kitties with him for company, since I knew he’d need their company more than I. And I miss them. Anyway, I hope things do work out for you, but if they don’t, my ear’s always available for lending.
I’m very sorry this has happened to you it is a very hard thing to happen but however it turns out I wish only the best for you. You are a wonderful, giving person.
Oh Hun, I’m soooo sorry. I truly hope everything works out for the best.
I’m really sorry to hear your news Crimson. I hope that everything works out for the best for both of you guys.
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Thank you. Hanging in there. Went over a friends house and had a ‘girls night’ and got some much needed support. I think I’m currently in the ‘determined’ phase where I’m making pro/con lists of why we should/shouldn’t stay together, what i want/need out of our relationship in oprder to make it work as well as what all I would need to do in the near future should we decide to split (separate bank accounts, get truck title in my name only, change insurance… that sort of thing). I am resolved to move forward on this whatever way we decide to go.
We have our therapy appointment today at 5:15pm. I’ll update on how it goes tonight.
It’s good that you can manage a rational approach to this. Sending you big hugs!
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmI’m sending you big hugs – I know too many people that have gone through divorce, with anything from ugly to relatively simple.
I’m glad that you’re thinking through it rationally though – that always makes it a (bit) easier (though certainly not easy).
Well back from the counseling session. It went alot differently than I expected honestly.
The Dr gave us some things to work on and I think even convinced my Husband to see another Dr on his own as well.
We have another session scheduled for next Thursday.
Guess we’ll see what happens.
Thank you again for all your support.
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