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*hugs* Your boyfriend sounds like my ex-husband. I met him when I was 18, and kinda had to rush into marrying him when I was 21. (He was a foreign exchange student). Anyway, he would constantly critisize me, get upset with me for things I hadn’t done (as opposed to things I did do, kinda like that pontoon incident you described). He’d also stay out all night playing poker and not call me. He predominantly cared about what he wanted to do, and wanted me to act how he wanted me to act, etc.
Anyway, by 24 I got my head out of my young ass and left him.
By next year I had met the most kind, loving, wonderful man ever placed on this planet that treats me with love and respect. So don’t give up on men! 🙂 There’s some good ones out there. Realise what you are describing is emotional abuse. 🙁 I know you can’t just pick up and leave, but please explore options. Don’t let him emotionally dominate you. It’s not a healthy relationship 🙁
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Please don’t stay in a situation like that. It’s not good for you. *hugs* I wish I could do more for you.
purplecat wrote:“I’d give him a HAh! and a hi-yah! and I’d kick him sir!” 😆 adjusted for male kick recipient…lol.
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BDW, I’m sorry you’re going through this 🙁 Not all men are like that, though. *hugs* girl… and sending you strength!
Ummm…Did someone send me cheese?DantheDragon wrote:By next year I had met the most kind, loving, wonderful man ever placed on this planet that treats me with love and respect. So don’t give up on men! 🙂 There’s some good ones out there. Realise what you are describing is emotional abuse. 🙁 I know you can’t just pick up and leave, but please explore options. Don’t let him emotionally dominate you. It’s not a healthy relationship 🙁
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I’m glad you found someone loving! 😀 You lucky girl!
purplecat wrote:“I’d give him a HAh! and a hi-yah! and I’d kick him sir!” 😆 adjusted for male kick recipient…lol.
HA! HA! HA! 😆 You are welcome to do it yourself. 😀
emerald212 wrote:Please don’t stay in a situation like that. It’s not good for you. *hugs* I wish I could do more for you.
I don’t want to stay in this relationship or what ever you can call it.
But it’s so difficult to find a place to rent with my son’s special needs.boskydragon wrote:Not all men are like that, though. *hugs* girl… and sending you strength!
Oh I know but I’m tirred of trying…Been in the exact same situation BDW. You can make it better in some small ways just by taking care of yourself and your son to the best of your abilities and let him take care of himself (Men are like women in that aspect, some are worth it and some are a waste of good air. Don’t let him make you feel bad for anything you do.). Emotional abuse to me is so much worse than physical. I took an a$$-kicking first, then the other on top. 😛 It was like salt in a wound, 😡 but I got mine, and so will you. 😈 I really hope things work out for you soon. *hugs n warm wishes* 🙂
I had nothing to do with the cheese…I didn’t even cut it. 😉 (Inserted for comedic effect)
Pssst…*whispers* I stopped trying and met someone I really like alot, and we have both been hurt so he is scared more so than I am 😯 . It sucks, but we take it one day at a time. 😀 (Just so you know, luck can sometimes come along when you least expect it. 😉 )
Oh someone sent you cheese? I might know something, I might not. 😆 I’m joking, a few of us went together for this collaboration. I hope it cheered you up at least a little. It’s nice to hear that you will be working on some more art. You do such beautiful work.
Blame Skigod for the cheese!
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmI’m really tired so I won’t rewrite what I wrote to Kyrin and 2Huberts about the cheese episode. Here is what I wrote to them:
“Hi, I went to the post office today and…
I couldn’t beleive what I got…CHEESE!!!!!!
I really appreciate the gesture!
Thank you sooooo much!!!Only…
It was never refrigerated so I can’t even ejoy it. If it left the 3rd and just got delivered today and was never refrigerated I can’t take the chance. What confuses me is that it was marked in small lettering where you would normaly se the postal code at the right corner: “REFRIGERATE AT ONCE”
But the package was in with all the rest of the mail at the post office where the lady gets it in Aylmer, so that means it was there overnight not refrigerated then she pick it up to deliver at the post office in Luskville where it sat again with the rest of the mail by the time I pick it up it had sat there for more then 5 hours.
AAUUUUUGGGHHHHHHH! don’t people know how to read!!!
It was writen on the box “refrigerate at once”
Only 4 cheeses in the box says refrigerate after opening the rest says keep refrigerated and here in Canada it’s very humid and HOT!! since friday.
The post office in Aylmer does not have air conditioning and this one in Luskville is a small one and again it was so hot there too.
I really can’t eat the ones that say “keep refrigerated” and that is most of them.I would have loved to enjoy it and now because of them I can’t!
I’m so sorry it was a lost for you guys…but then again it wasn’t…this makes me realise that some people care unlike the one person I do live with that doesn’t.
Thank you sooooo much!”
So thank you all of you guys for the gesture I do appreciate it!
I just called the company and they asked me to call back tomorrow morning to find out who sent it and to see what they can do for the fact that it was never refrigerated.I’m like a chocoholic…I keep looking at the cheese and want to eat it but then cry because I can’t. 🙁
This is the biggest tease not being able to eat it. 😯 😆 😯 🙁Oh no! I’m so sorry it wasn’t refrigerated! Hopefully they can fix it for you.
Until then…*hugs*! We’re here and we care about you!
Oh no! I’m sorry to hear the cheese wasn’t refrigerated. That really sucks. 😥 I hope they can get it fixed.
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