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Congrats! That’s seriously great news.
I suppose decorating a nursery in Windstones would be bad…but there’s lots of stuffed dragons out there!
safyre_dream wrote:I think I might be in the same boat, time frame and everything… but I’m not saying anything until I know for sure. :X My husband will not be happy, well, not for a while anyway.
My best to you eaglefeather, and here’s to hoping your husband comes around!! <3
Well, I hope that if you are pregnant, he will come around too. If not, at least we know we’re not the only ones who might have grumpy hubbys. We have eachother!
But if it’s the case, I’m sure your hubby will learn to love it! 😉ddvm wrote:Congrats! That’s seriously great news.
I suppose decorating a nursery in Windstones would be bad…but there’s lots of stuffed dragons out there!
haha! My husband would kill me if I did decorate it in windstones!! Haha-that would be an expensive nursery! Stuffed dragons would be neat (maybe for a boy) but if it’s a girl, then unicorns. Or, a mix of both!
That is a very tempting idea! 😛Kyrin wrote:eaglefeather831 wrote:I am pregnant. This is my first baby, and it is coming at an inconveniant time with school. I might be able to finish my classes, but I wont be able to student teach by that time. But I am happy, but worried. My husband isn’t very excited about it. People keep on reassuring me that he will come around. I think he will to because he is wonderful, and we love eachother a lot. It’s weird because it’s our one year anniversary. “Happy Anniversary Honey! I’m Pregnant!!” 🙂 The more I tell people, the more excited I am.
I am not looking forward to the delivery though…..
You should be able to finish your classes. I was in college the whole pregnancy with my son. As for you student teaching, you can reschedule later.
Hubby will become more excited as the reality sinks in, right now it is hard for him to visualize, once you start showing and he hears the heartbeat for the first time, he will wake up.
When I told my husband we were expecting, even though we’d been trying, his oh so intelligent response was, “Huh?” Lol!
I also would not worry too much about labor and birth, I birthed both of mine naturally, and it really wasn’t that bad either time. And the second go around was nearly drug free except for the last 40 minutes, though to be honest, that wasn’t my idea, I would have opted for drugs sooner, but they were goofing off as it was, and almost didn’t get their $h1t together in time. My husband and sister in law were starting to think they were on their own.
I would take lamaze, and learn about what your body will do, fear of the unknown and what to expect are really the biggest things when it comes to birth. Trust your body, it was designed for this, and also DO NOT listen to anyone who insists on telling you negative birth experiences. If someone starts, ask them to please refrain from being negative or don’t tell you at all.
Birth is a beautiful thing, but I will not tell you to avoid pain meds, those are up to you, I don’t regret using them at all. Some people are really against it, but it’s a personal choice, so no one should tell you how to do this, this is your child and your birthing experience, and if anyone tries to boss you around, tell them I told you to tell them, “Bite me!”
When the time comes, everything should be about you and the baby, and you are in the drivers seat, this is your show.
Kyrin
Aww….that is advice well taken! Thanks!
skigod377 wrote:Dang. Now I wanna baby. Hmmm… how to break that to the boyfriend without causing panic…. Congrats again!
Haha-I hope there isn’t any panic, but maybe venting! It’s nice to know that I will be able to come to the forum and get some help if I need it! Thanks! 😀
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