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purpledoggy wrote:
Oh and necron99 is my husband. He was banned from his sci-fi board so now he’s started posting here.
Banned? Hee hee, think he’ll be ok here?
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmdragonmedley wrote:purpledoggy wrote:Oh and necron99 is my husband. He was banned from his sci-fi board so now he’s started posting here.
Banned? Hee hee, think he’ll be ok here?
I got banned because apparently TAPS the ghost hunter show, runs the board for their own show. If you so much as question anything they say is real you get harrassed then you get the boot . You are only allowed to agree with them and tell them how awsome they are , they ought to put the sycle and hammer behind the Sci-Fi logo
Yup, weddings, babies and even time changes friendships. It may be painful to move on, but if you have irreconcilable differences, you may have to do just that. It sounds like they are being inflexible on purpose, so the friendship will end and they can blame it on you. That’s just my 2¢, though.
Do whatever you think is right for you and your family.
What I have noticed over time is that as I have changed and my situations and interests have changed, my friendships have changed too. The office friends change when I leave or they leave the office, or the careers or the towns or the neighborhoods or the college change. That happens especially when we change from single to married and from married to parents because the focus of our attention changes and often the other people either can’t or don’t or won’t catch up or they get jealous of the changes until the changes happen to them. Sometimes we just outgrow old friendships like old clothes that have gone out of style for us and it’s time for new ones that fit our new lives better, rather than hang on to old ones just because they used to fit way back when.
Maybe it’s time to look at this friendship and see if there is still anything in it besides history for you.Drgnlvr has a good point there. People do change, and it looks as if the bride and groom have been the ones doing the “growing away” . . . or maybe they’re only stagnating in one place. Maybe it is time to weigh the pros and cons of trying to maintain this relationship, especially since they’ve made it an uphill battle for both of you. That’s not very friendlike of them.
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