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It sounds to me that HE is the one with the “Issue” of not understanding what depression is. His coping mechanism is desertion, and that is the cowardly way out. I have been though divorce, and it does get messy…but what he is asking is ridiculous! It is downright shameful how he is acting. Hang in there, and stay honest, everything else will work itself out through the courts. Remember hun…Karma works wonders in the end. Just take comfort in knowing that this is NOT YOUR FAULT! Seriously.
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Well, the boyohs and I have survived our first week in our new apartment. They are with Rod for the weekend and will spend Thanksgiving with his family. He wants them on Tues. when his folks arrive but I’ve said Wed. afternoon. He wanted them the whole week and that’s not going to fly at all. I’ve told the boyohs that if they don’t want to sleep on the floor at the house because of all the relatives they can always come back here and sleep in their own beds…
twindragonsmum
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WELCOME BACK – it’s nice to hear from you. I really don’t have any advice you haven’t already heard.
The one thing I would like to add is – Get the best lawyer you can in the area where you live. One that is familiar with all the judges you may come up against. I fell that sometimes it is not who had done what but who has the best lawyer. I speak from experience.
Glad to hear from you. I can’t offer any other advise that hasn’t already been given.
The only thing I can offer is make sure you have the best divorce lawyer in the area. Make sure he/she is familiar with any/all of the judges you may come up against. Many times it is not who did what but who has the best lawyer. I speak from experience
Yesterday we had our last session of mediation. We weren’t able to get everything decided or agreed on so we go to trial sometime in the next 3 months. The fight comes down to money (of course) what he has offered would keep me afloat for about a year and a half. I’ve had a meeting and interview with a Vocational Rehabilitation counselor and he will testify that my being employable is next to nothing because of my chronic pain and peripheral neuropathy in my feet. The boyohs and I may not be able to stay in this apartment since Rod is paying for it until the divorce is final and then depending on the settlement we may have to move again. The boyohs are furious with Rod over the fact that he is unwilling to pay any sort of support. Ethan asked “What? Is he going to give you nothing and ship you back to gra’ma? How do you call that fair?” We have an appointment to see the counselor on Thurs. hopefully we can help the boyohs to not be so anxious. They were so angry that they didn’t go to Rod’s on Thurs like they were supposed to. They went on Sat. and arrived here on Sun. after church instead of that evening. Neither seems to be speaking to their dad at the moment. oy. I have an appointment today at the elementary school to see if they can use me in their reading program. Wish me luck!
twindragonsmum
tdm
Wishing you luck and sending huge hugs your way! I’m so proud of your boys – they so get it. I think they’re the best possible support right now.
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It´s so sad to see happy families ripped apart like that. My parents did something similar but with a lot more twists a few years ago so I know a bit what this feels like. 🙁
It´s really good that your boys are old enough to understand what´s going on and make their own decisions.
Stay strong!Awww TDM, darn it I wanna kick your ex’s A## so bad. I am glad that your boys are seeing the truth of the situation and that it is unfairly being directed by your ex. I wish all the best for you 3 and that all of this sorts out in you and your boys favor. **HUGGS**
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