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Can you out your ex boss that put in the negative NCOER? Isn’t that a no-no? Sleeping with a lower ranking class?
Either way, you made the right decision for your family!
Cute Poad, I must have missed the announcement somewhere!First off I’m very sorry to hear about the work issues. I would, out her too, so to speak. People like that have something to prove and just add insult to injury. Karma will come back and bite her in the butt.
In response to the DM would even like this Poad(tm) you are incorrect, Pink is not one of my colors so you would NOT have had any competition from me there but since you have not been around as much you must have missed that I have changed my tune on Poads(tm) ever since I now own one. I had a charity even last month and I got Windstone to make a few donations and I bought the whset and Gold Poad(tm) that I know in my heart Melody specifically painted knowing I would NOT be able to allow anyone else to get her/him /it.
Keep thinking positive thoughts and everything will work out in the long run.
I did not understand a lot of the Army talk here though.
I’m glad you LOVED the Poad(tm)I’m happy that you got her safely, and that she has meant so much to you. I had hoped today when I saw your Siggy and that beautiful little Poad(TM) in it that you had finally gotten the one being sent to you. And I think all the Pink things you keep getting is starting to make me want Pink to become a Production colour (GASP and I don’t normally like pink)If it does though I think Melody should maybe even call it “Ski Pink” 😀
I totally missed this. Sorry to hear that things are still stressful at work. Besides having friends here on the forums that are so caring, the folks at Windstone are pretty cool to take the time fulfill special requests so these surprises are possible.
Sending happy thoughts and warm hugs to you. 🙂
Collecting and Clicking!
Yay, I am glad that you were able to receive it and that it cheered you up. It is a nice color. Keep thinking positive and eventually something will turn out well.
Thank you guys. 🙂 I wish I could “out” her, but I have to have proof and when it comes down to writing sworn statements, people are not so accomidating. I would just look like I was trying to redirect attention elsewhere instead of on me. If there is any justice, I will be on this list. I doubt it, though, since I have not deployed. My bad choices I made in the past are now coming back to haunt me, though if I had not done them, I would not have Paul.
I’m sorry to hear that you’re having such a tough time right now. I hope you are on that promotion list and the NCOER isn’t an issue anymore! And I think staying for 6 more years to get the retirement benefits is definitely the right thing to do, if the situation is tolerable.
Dealing with this kind of stress is really hard, but hang in there. This will pass. In the meantime, focus on your pink poad and the other good things in your life. 🙂 I love your siggie! 😆
Thanks girl. I am gonna manage. It hurts that the system I have supported for so long has failed me, but I will survive. 😉
I have to say though about your hanging in there for the last few years, My mother has just done that with her Company (Not enlistment, just normal company, Lol just in case clarification is needed) She’s got 20 years straight and technically 30 years otherwise, but they’re trying to screw her out of that now, but she’s told them point blank either they retire her like they said she could or she’d retire/quit anyway and they’d have no hope in hell of ever getting her to do any consultation work for them. Her plan is to be out here for Khyms second Christmas if not for his first Birthday. So she probably knows what you’re going through. She was even supposed to move up to a Staff position that they had originally created at her current level and she, developed/ran for it’s first life, but then a new Parent company took over and tried to say that the position was not necessary, for a couple years realized it was, was going to reopen it to open bids, but because of Politics they just put some other already staff into the position. So she got screwed out of that. They would even have been able to keep her for another 5 years if she’d gotten that. But Physically/medically she just can’t stay doing what she is, so she’s gonna leave. I know you probably can’t do that in your situation but still. You’re not the only one in a similar position, if the knowledge helps.
skigod377 wrote:Thanks girl. I am gonna manage. It hurts that the system I have supported for so long has failed me, but I will survive. 😉
*hugs* 🙂
Sorry I missed this, I’ve been a little distractable lately. I was wondering what ever happened with your Poad, She’s really pretty and I love your new siggie! I’m sorry your going through all this crappiness! Hopefully you’ll be on the promotion list! {hugs to you}
Glad you got the pink poad she is beautiful. I hope things get better for you soon.
My b/f retired a few years ago as a chief master sgt in the air force reserves with 33 years. He was going to retire with 30 years but they asked him to stay (on active duty) for another 3 years which would make him 60 and have to retire. I was relieved when he turned 60.
Well, I am not giving the Army a day more than 20. Esp after this. I signed the review today and I am starting to think I should have just signed the first one and let everyone see how ridiculous it was. Oh well. We shall see what happens.
Thanks again everyone. I am gonna try to cheer up and not dwell on things I cannot change.
Girl 6 years will go by befoer you know it. You have all your medical and your new husband. Just pay attention tei Justin and before you know it he will be graduation from High School and you will be retired.
I wonder if this had anything to do with jealousy of you getting married??Dragon Master wrote:Girl 6 years will go by befoer you know it. You have all your medical and your new husband. Just pay attention tei Justin and before you know it he will be graduation from High School and you will be retired.
I wonder if this had anything to do with jealousy of you getting married??No. Nothing. It was before we even got engaged. The thing is, they respect my husband totally. Even gave him an MSM when he PCS’d. You’d think they would know he would not marry a dirtbag 😆
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