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I’m back. Brittany is steadier now, but this will hurt her for a long, long time…I’d never been to a funeral before, this was my first. I’m really relieved to be home and back here. Thank you for all your kind thoughts, Brittany said she may come see this when I told her, it made her smile. Thanks.
In some was I have to say lucky you for not having had to go to a funeral before. I went to my first one when I was probably 4 or 5. I’ve been to so many more since then I can’t even remember all of the ones I’ve been to. I’m 29 now.
Oh please say this wasn’t Brittany’s first funeral. Losing someone is always hard, but I can’t imagine your first loss being your partner. I hope Brittany has someone close by? Is she taking time off of her normal routine? Hugs & love to you & her, and if she ever needs to vent, she can pm me and I promise not to take offense.
I’m so sory for your loss. I know it’s not much but when my grandma passed away last year my co worker said something that has stayed with me and it helped my thru with my mom in April. Death only effects the living. I know it may sound hard but it really helped me. At least your brother in law did not seem to be in pain at the end loke so many. I know how hard this is for you and your family especially jsut having gone thur it myself twice in the last 18 months but it will eventually get easier. Spend as much time as you can with Britney
She has lots of others helping her out right now, but she needed me there through the funeral. It was only my first funeral, not hers…She’s coping…She’s taking a couple weeks off from work and will be ok financially for a little while if she needs longer. She may not finish moving into their house for a while though, right now she’s living with our grandparents and her parents (alternating) until she’s ready.
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