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I think I'm going to have a nervous breakdown..not anymore.

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  • #763437
    BDW
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      My BF said he wants to declare bankruptcy and could bring me down with him according to a friend of mine…. 😮
      That is not fair! All my bills are paid on time and I’m not included in his decisions when he decides to purchase stuff so how can they hold me responcible? 😡
      My name is not on any of his bills or the house!

      #498157
      BDW
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        #763438
        Laurie
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          Blackdesertwind wrote:

          My BF said he wants to declare bankruptcy and could bring me down with him according to a friend of mine…. 😮
          That is not fair! All my bills are paid on time and I’m not included in his decisions when he decides to purchase stuff so how can they hold me responcible? 😡
          My name is not on any of his bills or the house!

          I don’t see how. :scratch: You’re not married, and all of the above. Besides, you don’t have anything. 😕

          #763439
          Azurielle
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            If you’re not married, and your name isn’t on anything, there’s nothing he can do. period.

            Keeper of the Fledgings

            #763440
            BDW
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              2Huberts wrote:

              Blackdesertwind wrote:

              My BF said he wants to declare bankruptcy and could bring me down with him according to a friend of mine…. 😮
              That is not fair! All my bills are paid on time and I’m not included in his decisions when he decides to purchase stuff so how can they hold me responcible? 😡
              My name is not on any of his bills or the house!

              I don’t see how. :scratch: You’re not married, and all of the above. Besides, you don’t have anything. 😕
              No we are not married but we file common-law for income tax.
              I don’t have anything now but maybe by the end of the week I’ll have my own car….Lenora’s bf found one for me.
              I have to go look at it on wednesday….wish me luck I hope it a good car since it’s 1997 ford Escort station.

              #763441
              BDW
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                azurielle wrote:

                If you’re not married, and your name isn’t on anything, there’s nothing he can do. period.

                He keeps on telling me he’s affraid he’ll have to bring me down with him though. I don’t know if he’s just being mean and trying to scare me…anyway it’s working, I feel sick to my stomack right now because of my nerves
                :puke:

                #763442

                Blackdesertwind wrote:

                azurielle wrote:

                If you’re not married, and your name isn’t on anything, there’s nothing he can do. period.

                He keeps on telling me he’s affraid he’ll have to bring me down with him though. I don’t know if he’s just being mean and trying to scare me…anyway it’s working, I feel sick to my stomack right now because of my nerves
                :puke:

                Sounds like he might be thinking that you’re leaving and he’s trying to manipulate? :shrug: There’s nothing he can do to you as far as bankruptcy goes. He’s just yankin your chain. 👿 Hang in there hun. You have all of us pulling for you. 🙂
                Hugs N Prayers

                #763443

                azurielle wrote:

                If you’re not married, and your name isn’t on anything, there’s nothing he can do. period.

                I believe azurielle’s right. Do the two of you have any joint property at all?

                #763444
                Lokie
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                  Look under the section “How is my spouse affected?”:

                  www. bankruptcycanada. com/ question1. htm

                  And read this site:

                  www. bankruptcy-canada. ca/bankruptcy/ bankruptcy-spouse .htm

                  Seems like you wouldn’t be responsible for anything that you haven’t signed into a contract together for. So you should be fine. 🙂

                  (edited by Susie 11/21/13: bankruptcycanada.com asked us to disable the link to their site, so I did. -susie@windstoneeditions.om)

                  #763445
                  BDW
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                    purpledragonclaw wrote:

                    azurielle wrote:

                    If you’re not married, and your name isn’t on anything, there’s nothing he can do. period.

                    I believe azurielle’s right. Do the two of you have any joint property at all?
                    No and I made sure to tell him from the beginning to never think of putting my name on anything.
                    I don’t think he suspects anything yet about me leaving…I’ve even told him I would like to repaint and paint the door outside.

                    #763446

                    You’re leaving him?! Congratulations! I wish you the best!

                    #763447
                    BDW
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                      OMG! Thank you Lokie for those links….I feel so releived right now…you can not imagine how much…
                      Now next time he says that I almost feel like answering him: “just try” 👿 😈

                      khat7 wrote:

                      Sounds like he might be thinking that you’re leaving and he’s trying to manipulate? :shrug: There’s nothing he can do to you as far as bankruptcy goes. He’s just yankin your chain. 👿 Hang in there hun. You have all of us pulling for you. 🙂
                      Hugs N Prayers

                      Thank you Khat 🙂

                      purpledragonclaw wrote:

                      You’re leaving him?! Congratulations! I wish you the best!

                      HEHE I guess you are late in the news….I’m leaving in Sept/October. But the way things are going I might have to find a temporary place for us and the critters.

                      #763448
                      Lokie
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                        Blackdesertwind wrote:

                        Now next time he says that I almost feel like answering him: “just try” 👿 😈

                        Yeah, next time he’s saying that, just remember the jokes on him, especially if he’s not just trying to scare you, but actually believes that. Sucks to be him and his credit rating 😉

                        #763449
                        BDW
                        Participant

                          So true! 😛

                          #763450
                          bayoudragon
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                            I am also out of the news loop, as I am a forum newbie… but girl, you definitely have my support!

                            My sister just filed for separation and is going for full custody. It’s a mess, but she feels so much freer now that she has her life back and is no longer stuck in that situation. People who manipulate and threaten like that are worst than dirt. Now I am all fired up! 😡

                            Hang in there if you can, get out sooner if you must. And many hugs from me!!!

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