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Dracomancer wrote:
im depressed(big surprise there eh?)i havent been able to get any windstones since last christmas..mainly because whenever i DO get money my roommate takes it for her bills and crap and then i have nothing left..i know its stupid to feel depressed over such things but it just makes me upset to see everyone able to show their new pieces while im left in the dust completly..my gf isnt supportive of my feelings..she thinks material posessions are worthless and i shouldnt really be upset about it anyway..and my roommate..well..shes never actually cared about what i want..she more or less keeps me here so my gf wont up and leave and take her rent money with her , i know it sounds selfish of me to complain about this..but windtones are one of the few things that makes me happy..when my roommate and gf get to go to vegas on trips or what not..i have to stay and look after all the animals and clean the house..i havent gotten to really GO anywhee since last christmas when i went to the factory..now due to all this and how its just weighing me down beyond beliefe…i may just end up dissapearing for awhile..sorry but i honestly have no drive to do much of anything currently
Wait why does she take your money for her bills?? Do you get along with them other than money? Maybe it’s time to move by yourself or take a break 🙁
Dracomancer wrote:skigod377 wrote:Dracomancer wrote:skigod377 wrote:Im sorry Draco. 🙁 Any chance of getting a new gf? A better one? Maybe one that wont shrug off your feelings and ditch you to hang with her roommate? I things improve and you cheer up. 🙁 We can def feel your frustration about the Windstones. Some folks just dont understand. Its a bummer to be broke.
i dont ditch people..even if they have flaws..they leave me here all the damn time youd think id be used to it by now..and im ALWAYS broke..my artwork isnt good enough to sell and i cant sell my PYOs because i dont have a decent camera…honestly..there is only so much one can handle..Draco its not ditching them if they have left you behind. They are ditching you. Turnabout is fair play, right? And it WILL get better… sometimes it just takes a little time. Course… it always gets worse again, but then it gets better 😀 Its a flux.
ditching them would leave me homeless and worse off then i am currently…and honestly things wont get better..they cant..i just dont see how they can
I don’t really know you so maybe I am missing something, but could you get a new job, or a better job, and stay there for a month or however long it takes you to be ready and then move out on your own? Or do you have another friend looking for a room mate?
Romeodanny wrote:I’m so sorry to hear that you are still depressed. Find yourself a little job, minimum wage is better than nothing. Come up with an agreement with your friend concerning money. (Like 10% or so to pay what you owe, looking after the house and pets is worth something. I’d let you live here for free if you cleaned for me. Yes I’m that lazy….)
I have a friend living with me currently that doesn’t have a job and she just takes care of the pets and cleans while I am at work. I do get frustrated sometimes but she is trying to find a job and at least she helps in the mean time 🙂
sad thing is..this is all just normal for me..i am always depressed and all this s*** always happens..youw ould think id be used to it by now -_-
Hey, it’s your money! You’re entitled to keep part of it. Start with that; if you can save a little bit for yourself every paycheque, then you can get a Windstone.
Tackle the living on your own second.
C’mon! Hugs!
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmI’m sorry you are having such a tough time but I know that song. I did not get paid from my 1 day last week at my part time job. I NEED that money as little (as it is since it was only 1 day) but I NEED it for food, gas and cat food. I have no credit anywhere and my next pay day is 5 days away. I had a co=woker loan me $100 and that is all I have been using to get by and more then 1/2 of that is gone. I’m not sure if I will have enough money to get to and from work thru the weekend
I’m sorry you’re both having such a bad time.
Draco, being depressed all the time is not normal. Perhaps you should find someone to talk to, a therapist that can be objective and help you see things from a different perspective.
DM, I wish I could send you all the money you need but as I’m poor too…I’m not much help. But I’ll be thinking about ya, and wishing you better luck.
Are you sure your g/f and roommate are good for your well being. Being depressed all the time is a dangerous situation and it sounds like you need to get out of it. But then again I have no idea what your situation is only you do and I am sure you are doing the best you can under the circumstances.
Feeling depressed all the time over what people may see as worthless things is something I can relate too…
I battled depression for a long time Draco, it saddens me to see someone else going through the same (or at least similar). You should talk to a doctor or therapist – they can be alot of help! They aren’t judgmental like family and friends can be.
*hugs* I wish I could do more (I don’t really know you but I know how you’re feeling right now)… if you need to talk I’m sure we are all here for you!
How you feeling today? Any better? 🙂 How about a joke? What does a baseball player do to cool down when he gets hot??
He stands next to his fans!! Get it?? His fans. Sorry. Thats my sons joke…
things just got even worse..toothache has come back even worse then before..been sitting here crying(yes men can cry on ocassion..like when having a hot iron stabbing your mouth) for the past 9 hours…oh and my roommates are in vegas…so i have no one i can call on for help…honestly..this is gettign on my very very very last nerve
There’s nothing wrong with crying, whether you’re in extreme pain or letting your emotions vent. Did you not get the toothache treated last time? Can you do it again? And I know you guys don’t get along, but from what you said your last reunion was ok, so maybe your family could help…???
Ski, I liked the joke 😀
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmdragonmedley wrote:Ski, I liked the joke 😀
Awww thanks. 😀
Do you have any Motrin around? That helps a whole bunch. Take about 1600mg and your mouth should feel better. Just a temp fix till you can get your teeth looked at again. I def recommend a job with a dental plan. They are out there. Any more ideas about changing the scenery?
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