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im depressed(big surprise there eh?)i havent been able to get any windstones since last christmas..mainly because whenever i DO get money my roommate takes it for her bills and crap and then i have nothing left..i know its stupid to feel depressed over such things but it just makes me upset to see everyone able to show their new pieces while im left in the dust completly..my gf isnt supportive of my feelings..she thinks material posessions are worthless and i shouldnt really be upset about it anyway..and my roommate..well..shes never actually cared about what i want..she more or less keeps me here so my gf wont up and leave and take her rent money with her , i know it sounds selfish of me to complain about this..but windtones are one of the few things that makes me happy..when my roommate and gf get to go to vegas on trips or what not..i have to stay and look after all the animals and clean the house..i havent gotten to really GO anywhee since last christmas when i went to the factory..now due to all this and how its just weighing me down beyond beliefe…i may just end up dissapearing for awhile..sorry but i honestly have no drive to do much of anything currently
Im sorry Draco. 🙁 Any chance of getting a new gf? A better one? Maybe one that wont shrug off your feelings and ditch you to hang with her roommate? I things improve and you cheer up. 🙁 We can def feel your frustration about the Windstones. Some folks just dont understand. Its a bummer to be broke.
skigod377 wrote:Im sorry Draco. 🙁 Any chance of getting a new gf? A better one? Maybe one that wont shrug off your feelings and ditch you to hang with her roommate? I things improve and you cheer up. 🙁 We can def feel your frustration about the Windstones. Some folks just dont understand. Its a bummer to be broke.
i dont ditch people..even if they have flaws..they leave me here all the damn time youd think id be used to it by now..and im ALWAYS broke..my artwork isnt good enough to sell and i cant sell my PYOs because i dont have a decent camera…honestly..there is only so much one can handle..
Hang in there, Draco. Things’ll get better. I can really empathize with being broke; our budget goes more and more for essentials. And it’s okay to feel bummed about missing out on things that you really would like to have. That sort of feeling can be painful but it’s all the sweeter later when you can fulfill the want…. *Hugs*
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get better? rofl! not in this lifetime..things always get %100 worse for me..specially since theyre taking another trip this weekend and omg i get left home..AGAIN!
Draco, I love you! /hugs! and we understand and sympathize with you, lord knows I’ve not had any money to buy a Windstone since before xmas, so you’re not alone! We will be here for you, and support you!
Dracomancer wrote:skigod377 wrote:Im sorry Draco. 🙁 Any chance of getting a new gf? A better one? Maybe one that wont shrug off your feelings and ditch you to hang with her roommate? I things improve and you cheer up. 🙁 We can def feel your frustration about the Windstones. Some folks just dont understand. Its a bummer to be broke.
i dont ditch people..even if they have flaws..they leave me here all the damn time youd think id be used to it by now..and im ALWAYS broke..my artwork isnt good enough to sell and i cant sell my PYOs because i dont have a decent camera…honestly..there is only so much one can handle..Draco its not ditching them if they have left you behind. They are ditching you. Turnabout is fair play, right? And it WILL get better… sometimes it just takes a little time. Course… it always gets worse again, but then it gets better 😀 Its a flux.
skigod377 wrote:Dracomancer wrote:skigod377 wrote:Im sorry Draco. 🙁 Any chance of getting a new gf? A better one? Maybe one that wont shrug off your feelings and ditch you to hang with her roommate? I things improve and you cheer up. 🙁 We can def feel your frustration about the Windstones. Some folks just dont understand. Its a bummer to be broke.
i dont ditch people..even if they have flaws..they leave me here all the damn time youd think id be used to it by now..and im ALWAYS broke..my artwork isnt good enough to sell and i cant sell my PYOs because i dont have a decent camera…honestly..there is only so much one can handle..Draco its not ditching them if they have left you behind. They are ditching you. Turnabout is fair play, right? And it WILL get better… sometimes it just takes a little time. Course… it always gets worse again, but then it gets better 😀 Its a flux.
ditching them would leave me homeless and worse off then i am currently…and honestly things wont get better..they cant..i just dont see how they can
I dont know either, since I dont know your situation currently, but I do know that everything passes. It just takes time and can suck in the meantime. 🙁 Maybe a fresh start? A new job with a place of your own? Even something minimum wage… just enough to pay the rent on a new place? Sometimes thats all someone needs is a change of scenery. 🙁
Have you told your girlfriend this? What’s she say about how you’re feeling? She should care about how she makes you feel, and I’d think you two would have a lot more fun in vegas together than her and her friend ;)…I say get a new girlfriend. Things get better eventually, it may take a while, and it may take you making some big changes in your life. I hope you get out of your depression soon.
Don’t be sad…it makes me sad! I know exactly how you feel because I haven’t been able to buy any windstones for such a long time myself. I can’t even remember…maybe I bought one before I was pregnant? I don’t know. However I have to take it back now because I did buy a PYO sculpt…but since they are cheap, that is the only reason why I bought them.
Please don’t be sad! Try hiding your money? I know it has to be unbearably frustrating to have someone take your money!I feel for ya, but at some point you’re going to have to take some control of your life…or you’re right, you will be miserable forever. I’m probably old enough to be your Mom (lots of experience) and I can tell you one thing for sure…everybody deserves to be happy. It takes some work, though. 😉 *hugs*
I’m so sorry to hear that you are still depressed. Find yourself a little job, minimum wage is better than nothing. Come up with an agreement with your friend concerning money. (Like 10% or so to pay what you owe, looking after the house and pets is worth something. I’d let you live here for free if you cleaned for me. Yes I’m that lazy….) Save like there’s no tomorrow, and start buying yourself little things like curlies….. cheaper things.
Does your gf have a camera? See if you can borrow it to take pictures of your PYOs. You are an amazing painter. I can’t wait to see what you do with my PYOs.
Try to get away for a weekend. I know it’s hard when you don’t have money. But, you need some time away to relax and unwind.
I was depressed over not buying things for myself. But, now I look at the pictures….. pretend that they are being looked after by someone else. It’s so nice of people to dust and keep my Windstones for me. 😆 I occasionally slip into the “I gotta have it” mode. But, with hours so iffy it’s very dangerous for me. I’ll end up on main street with a nice cardboard box…… In weather like this it’s not a good thing. At least Roof was re-built so I’d have somewhere to go in the winter….
Sending hugs…. even if you don’t want them. 🙂
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