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May 9, 2010 at 3:28 am #814429
Should I feel guilty? My husband started talking to a breeder, sort of told her what he was looking for…and also told her that he was in NO hurry to get a new dog. That we would wait til next year even.
Today, she called us. The pick of the litter that will be ready to go home in three weeks lost his home. They had some debt issues and told her to put their deposit toward another good home that may want him. She said that there were others who wanted him, and she even considered keeping him for herself… but she thought that he would be better suited to our home if we were interested.
I almost feel like.. I don’t know. Almost guilty. I will never be able to replace Titan in my heart, but I feel like this is a good thing at the same time. We’d be getting an amazing dog, who the lady is more than willing to give over to us in lieu of keeping him because he matches our home perfectly. So maybe I don’t have to replace Titan. Maybe I just find a different place in my heart for this gorgeous fellow?
What do you guys think? She wants us to come meet him. She says it’s just as important that the dog pick us as vice versa, but she thinks that he would be perfect. Is going to see him ‘cheating’ on my recently lost baby? I know that if I meet him, I’m going to fall in love with him.
So…..that being said, Meet Wally!
May 9, 2010 at 3:28 am #500752May 9, 2010 at 4:52 am #814430No dear, Wally won’t replace Titan…You’ll feel your heart grow, and as he does some of the things puppies do, and you remember Titan doing them when he was young, you will smile and chuckle to yourself with those fond memories. Titan will always have a special place in your heart, no matter how many puppies come into your home. π That being said, I hope Wally picks you!!! You’re sweet and I think he may be a good boy that fits right in with your family. π
May 9, 2010 at 7:29 am #814431What she said. You wont ever be able to replace a lost pet, but the heart will grow and accept another. I hope you go meet him and fall in love. π It may help heal the hurt. And if you don’t, thats ok, too. You will know when you are ready.
May 9, 2010 at 12:29 pm #814432“Maybe I just find a different place in my heart for this gorgeous fellow?”
That`s how it works. You should not feel guilty about taking him. You will still remember Titan and he will always have a special place in your heart. They`re two different individuals and you will love this guy for who he is and Titan for who he was. I thought the same way after losing a much beloved cat last year. “Is it too soon?,” I asked myself. But in fact the timing was great! My new cute and playful little kitty brightened up my day. She is totally different from the other one, but I love her for exactly who she is and that`s what really matters π
May 9, 2010 at 1:21 pm #814433No, don’t feel guilty at all! We just got puppies, only a few weeks after saying goodbye to Cannelle. Having no animals around left such an empty space in our hearts! We’ll never forget Cannelle – we had to put Pooka to sleep 2 years back and I still miss her. My heart still squeezes when I think of Cannelle, but now we have a new energy around us, with completely different dogs. No comparison, not ever! They all have different personalities and will get in different kind of trouble. Every animal we ever had (and will have) will have a special place in our hearts. No one replaces anyone!
So big hugs and… congrats!
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmMay 9, 2010 at 3:43 pm #814434Having lost my baby Tristen a year ago I felt a little the same way – that no other dog could take his place but you know the new one isn’t taking the other ones place as he will always live in your heart forever. Last weekend I adopted a new chow from the breeder I got Tristen from and he is already making his own place in my heart and home. Being the same breed he looks like Tristen but his personality is a 100% turnaround. This will probably be the same for you and it helps heal that empty spot in your heart left by the one you lost.
May 9, 2010 at 4:00 pm #814435When you get a new pet, your heart will grow to accomodate the new pet, without forgetting the old ones. You’ll know if you’re ready for your heart to accept a new puppy, and I hope you go and meet him and fall in love. He does have a rather sweet face. π
May 9, 2010 at 4:06 pm #814436Thank you all.. π My husband really wants him, I think. I think we’re definately going to go have a meet and greet with this little guy. Lola called us again this morning and asked if we were busy, because she’s free today. Not sure what, if anything, we’re doing for mothers day, though. She sent me a few more pictures of him, and said that she’s been working with him on the early hunting training, since he’s been showing a lot of potential. At this age, it’s all just a form of play for him. Teaching him to use his nose, and galloping around playing. I’m glad that he’s getting some extra play time. π
Incidentally, I think that this guy tugs at my husbands heart for another reason. My husbands grandfather whom we just lost a month and a half ago…his name was Wally. My husband thinks it’s ‘meant to be’.
I’m starting to feel like maybe he’s right. *soft smile*
May 9, 2010 at 5:14 pm #814437AnonymousOh how CUTE is that puppy (as all pups are!) — maybe it was meant to be.
If it works out and you get him, I wish you all the best of times!! If it grows up to be the most unruly pet you’ve ever had, you can always say, I knew I should’ve waited – and blame your hubby. LOL
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May 9, 2010 at 5:46 pm #814438Poems wrote:Oh how CUTE is that puppy (as all pups are!) — maybe it was meant to be.
If it works out and you get him, I wish you all the best of times!! If it grows up to be the most unruly pet you’ve ever had, you can always say, I knew I should’ve waited – and blame your hubby. LOL
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Hahah!! I won’t let him be unruly. Particularly because if we DO get him, I’d like to do comformation with him. And he can’t do well in hunting if he doesn’t know how to listen and follow commands. Of course, this particular breed is known for their high energy (one of the reasons they do make good hunters)which is fine with me. Titan was a high energy furchild as well. We just kept him busy, and I gave him a job as my daily jogging companion, so that he never got restless enough to destroy things. Usually about halfway through the day, all Titan wanted to do was curl up on my feet and sleep. :)Of course, there’s a lot about this type of dog that will take some acclimating to get used to. They are ‘velcro dogs’, and once they are bonded with their family, they are clingy and want to be with their people. And by ‘with’, I mean at your side constantly unless they are hard at work tracking birds. I’m actually sort of looking forward to that part. Titan was super independent unless he wanted something, or he was tired and wanted to curl up close to me. Plus, there’s the whole house training part, which is ALWAYS a blast. Don’t think it’s going to be too tough with this guy though, as the breeder starts their potty training while they are still with her. Ah, the joys of puppyhood!
May 9, 2010 at 7:54 pm #814439Aw, Wally is a totally cutie!! Luck with the training. π
May 10, 2010 at 12:29 am #814440Ditto what everyone else has said :yes: and Wally is such a cute little keeper… π
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May 10, 2010 at 1:56 am #814441Thanks again everyone. We decided today that we’re definately going to make him a part of our family. I hesitated because I thought it might be too soon, but it just feels right.
May 10, 2010 at 2:10 am #814442TalonaCat wrote:Thanks again everyone. We decided today that we’re definately going to make him a part of our family. I hesitated because I thought it might be too soon, but it just feels right.
Oh good!!! Happy Mother’s day to you!!! π
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