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    Hi everyone. It seems like I only stop by when I have bad news. Well, this time is no different. I know some of you know already about what is happening with my mom. I was giving updates with my sale thread. To be fair it’s not the place for it. So here are the updates and for those who missed the drama, the beginning of this tale. At least the most recent part of the tale.

    On Monday Sept. 14th my Mom went into emerg. She had horrendously low blood pressure. (When I found out what the blood pressure reading was, man I couldn’t believe that she was even alive) While she was in emerg she went into cardiac arrest. (Not a heart attack, this is where the heart just stops) They managed to revive her and she was on life support until Saturday. (She could have slipped away then but, if that had happened at least it would have happened in her sleep) She’s a fighter for sure, stubborn and tenacious.

    Today good news she’s out of the hospital. But, she needs 24 hour health care. The doctors meeting that I couldn’t go to was about the fact that she should be in Freeport hospital. That’s where they send people that have no hope of living. Mom knows that too and she would probably give up if she ended up there. Dad will care for her for now. She’ll have a nurse every morning to help her with a shower and probably one at night. Dad will otherwise be caring for her.

    When that gets to be too much then she’s to be transferred to Freeport, if they have a bed available.

    So, no big news. She’s been in declining health since last year. But, it’s still hard. She’s only 64 years old. At least she will no longer have to hear about double amputation. (Why they kept bringing that up, I have no clue, she can’t have even a minor surgery. So telling her this in my mind was just cruel.)

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    dragonmedley
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      Oh, Rose, I’m so sorry! I hope your parents can pull through and get settled in an easy routine. 64 is so young for something like this. Big hugs!

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      #785478

      I’m glad she’s still hanging in there, but I know it must be very tough for all of you. 🙁 I’m glad she can stay at home and not go to Freeport.

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      Pegasi1978
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        I’m sorry to hear about this as well. I agree that 64 is so young for something like this to happen. My own parents are 62 and 66 and I can remember how worried I was when my dad had problems with his blood pressure earlier this year. It really scared me.

        #785480

        I’m glad your mom will be able to enjoy the comfort of her own home, at least for a while longer. So sad that this is happening to her 🙁 I will keep her and the rest of your family in my prayers.

        #785481
        Bob

          I’m so sorry you have to go thru this.
          I sent you my contact infromation if you need to talk as long as I’m not working my mom was 67 when she lost her 3rd battle with lung Cancer so I know EXACTLY what you are going thru

          #785482
          darjeb
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            I am sor sorry to hear about your mom – she is so young to be having such a hard time.

            #785483
            NirvanaCat13
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              Oh sweetie! I hadn’t heard the full story before….I’m so so sorry. All this must be so hard on you and her and the rest of your family. I second the motion that at least she’ll be at home where she’s comfortable with people that love her taking care of her, that is uaualy the best form of treatment! Send you all big hugs and healing thoughts and prayers!!!

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              Lokie
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                I’m so sorry. I’m glad she can go home with your dad and I’m sending healing thoughts her way!

                #785485

                I am glad your mom is out of the hospital, and I hope that her health will improve. Prayers your way!
                If you don’t mind me asking-what causes such low blood pressure?

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                lamortefille
                Participant

                  Lots of good thoughts for you and your family….

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                  laphon1
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                    I’m so sorry. But at least she can still go to her own home. **hugs**

                    #785488

                    Just wanted everyone to know. Mom passed away on December 30th at 10:40am.
                    It wasn’t her heart that got her. She ended up with blood poisoning. Thank you all so much for all of your prayers and healing thoughts. Now, she’s in a better place with no pain.

                    It hasn’t honestly hit me just yet, I’m blissfully numb as we make arraignments and get everything in order. I know when I get to the viewing it’ll probably hit me hard.

                    eaglefeather831 wrote:

                    If you don’t mind me asking-what causes such low blood pressure?

                    You know, I don’t really know… but, she’s always had low blood pressure.

                    #785489

                    Oh… 🙁 I am so sorry for your loss. We are always here for you! *big hugs*

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