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I am pregnant. This is my first baby, and it is coming at an inconveniant time with school. I might be able to finish my classes, but I wont be able to student teach by that time. But I am happy, but worried. My husband isn’t very excited about it. People keep on reassuring me that he will come around. I think he will to because he is wonderful, and we love eachother a lot. It’s weird because it’s our one year anniversary. “Happy Anniversary Honey! I’m Pregnant!!” 🙂 The more I tell people, the more excited I am.
I am not looking forward to the delivery though…..
Aww congratulations! I was four months pregnant when my husband and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary. Now we have a littel boy who will be three in November. So what are you hoping for?
eaglefeather831 wrote:I am pregnant. This is my first baby, and it is coming at an inconveniant time with school. I might be able to finish my classes, but I wont be able to student teach by that time. But I am happy, but worried. My husband isn’t very excited about it. People keep on reassuring me that he will come around. I think he will to because he is wonderful, and we love eachother a lot. It’s weird because it’s our one year anniversary. “Happy Anniversary Honey! I’m Pregnant!!” 🙂 The more I tell people, the more excited I am.
I am not looking forward to the delivery though…..
You should be able to finish your classes. I was in college the whole pregnancy with my son. As for you student teaching, you can reschedule later.
Hubby will become more excited as the reality sinks in, right now it is hard for him to visualize, once you start showing and he hears the heartbeat for the first time, he will wake up.
When I told my husband we were expecting, even though we’d been trying, his oh so intelligent response was, “Huh?” Lol!
I also would not worry too much about labor and birth, I birthed both of mine naturally, and it really wasn’t that bad either time. And the second go around was nearly drug free except for the last 40 minutes, though to be honest, that wasn’t my idea, I would have opted for drugs sooner, but they were goofing off as it was, and almost didn’t get their shit together in time. My husband and sister in law were starting to think they were on their own.
I would take lamaze, and learn about what your body will do, fear of the unknown and what to expect are really the biggest things when it comes to birth. Trust your body, it was designed for this, and also DO NOT listen to anyone who insists on telling you negative birth experiences. If someone starts, ask them to please refrain from being negative or don’t tell you at all.
Birth is a beautiful thing, but I will not tell you to avoid pain meds, those are up to you, I don’t regret using them at all. Some people are really against it, but it’s a personal choice, so no one should tell you how to do this, this is your child and your birthing experience, and if anyone tries to boss you around, tell them I told you to tell them, “Bite me!”
When the time comes, everything should be about you and the baby, and you are in the drivers seat, this is your show.
Kyrin
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http://www.sarahjestin.com/feedbacklists.htmCongrats!! That is so awesome! I really hope you finish school with no problems. 😀
Pregnancies are seriously contagious 😯
skigod377 wrote:Congrats!! That is so awesome! I really hope you finish school with no problems. 😀
Pregnancies are seriously contagious 😯
I know!! I know so many people who are pregnant, and the DAy before I found out, my sister and law and I were saying how everybody is pregnant now!! I guess she told my husband that she jinxed me because she said that I’d be the next one to get pregnant! Haha-how funny.
Every day, I am getting more and more excited about it. It’s hard to believe that something is growing inside of me. Wow! 😯
Oh, also-who else has this baby-gaga counter? I saw it on the forums somewhere, and I didn’t think to look who had it, and I can’t find who she is.
I just wated to say thanks for having the ticker-thingy because I was able to find it! It is very neat to read what is going on with the baby.
I think I might be in the same boat, time frame and everything… but I’m not saying anything until I know for sure. :X My husband will not be happy, well, not for a while anyway.
My best to you eaglefeather, and here’s to hoping your husband comes around!! <3
Congrats! (to Eaglefeather & to Safyre too!)
Your husband will get excited, but even mine said later that it was never totally real to him until we had the baby. 🙄 (He also never made that comment about “if I could be pregnant I’d do it for you” and even admitted he wouldn’t!)
Pregnancy is a roller coaster ride, but we’re here for venting & panic! 🙂Dang. Now I wanna baby. Hmmm… how to break that to the boyfriend without causing panic…. Congrats again!
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