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I just wanted to say a late thank you to everyone.
I haven’t visited the forum much since May when my world as I knew it collapsed. My boyfriend left me unexpectedly. He told me there was no other woman but he got together with someone else a week or two after dumping me, so my gut feeling told me he dumped me to be with her. To make things worse, he told me he never felt anything for me and the whole relationship was just a lie that he’d somehow got too carried away with. He treated me like a girlfriend so I didn’t suspect a thing. I’d known him for just under 2 years, first starting out as good friends. We spent the last 5 months of that in a relationship together and I was really happy, thinking things were progressing nicely. I totally didn’t see it coming, it hit me like a ten tonne truck.
Yesterday my ex got really mad that I talked about my side of the relationship with friends. He denies any relationship ever existed and just spouted out loads of angry, venomous, hurtful words at me. Everything he said was just pure hatred. He chose a really bad time because I had just come back from the vet after taking my 18.5 year old cat Coco there as an emergency. My fur baby has been having bad bladder infections these past few months and antibiotics only seems to be a temporary cure so the vet wants to run an ultrasound to see if there’s anything irregular. If there’s something there, he’ll need an operation. Part of me wants it to be as simple as an operation so he can live a bit longer with no more pain (he’s been to the vet about 3 times this month already and the last 6 months have just consisted of trips to the vet for antibiotics). But I’m also obviously scared about the possibility of an operation due to his age. He loves life so much still and if it wasn’t for the bladder infections, he’d be virtually pain free. I just hope something can be done to prolong his life, ultimately. I know the heartbreak of losing Coco will be a thousand times greater than that of my ex and I hope we can have a little more time together yet. He’s my soul mate in cat form if that makes any sense, as I know lots of you have fur babies of your own. He has one of the purest souls of any creature, way too pure for any human being. He’s not happy being constantly pushed and pulled around to the vet so I just hope there’s something that can be done.
I took this picture a couple of years ago, it’s one of my favourites. He’s a very affectionate cat and loves hugs. ^_^
This one is more recent, it was taken a couple of weeks ago when we washed his catnip toys and he was mesmerized by the smell coming from the washing machine. 😀
Sorry to hear life has been pounding on you. 🙁 Poor Coco! I hope they can find something that will permanently heal his bladder.
Sorry about your now ex, he sounds like a nasty one. You might not want to hear it, but I think you should be glad that this came out before it went any further.
And hugs to you and Coco, he looks like a beautiful cat. Its so hard not being able to tell them that having to be at the vet is for their own good.
Thanks for your kind words, Adaneth. Coco’s having his ultrasound on tuesday, I hope the vet can find a solution to his bladder problems.
Thank you too, Jasmine. I agree with you, I’m well rid of my ex. After all the pain subsides, you realise just how lucky you are to have gotten a relatively easy escape from someone who has the capability to be so cruel. Yesterday confirmed alot of things for me. Coco deserves all my attention now, I’m determined to get him through this. He’s not ready to leave this realm just yet.
I am so sorry to hear that, Misato. *Hugs tight* I agree with what Jasmine said, it is so much better that this came out now before things got as permanent as marriage. What saddens me most of all is the news about your furbaby. I will be keeping both of you in my thoughts and hope for the very best as you stand by Coco and help him through this difficult time.
I’ve just taken Coco to the vet for his ultrasound but the vet can’t do it right away so she’s keeping him in for the day until she has a free half hour. I’m kinda sad at leaving him there for up to 5 hours because he doesn’t cope well with change and people he doesn’t know. I hope she can see to him quickly, I’ll be standing by the phone the whole day I think.
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